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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Uguquguquko kwizimangaliso, kuphulukiswa kunye nokuphendulwa ngemikhuleko
Kungani uNkulunkulu ashaye esikhonkosini abuye ageje ngokwendlela aphendula ngayo ngokokunxusa kwethu lakhona sidinga umangaliso lwakhe ? Ngesikhathi ingane yami izalwe inenkinga enhliziyweni ,yayidinga ukuhlinzwa inhliziyo ngobuchule ,umthandazo wethu waphenduleka ngokumangalisayo.Kodwa ngesikhathi umnyeni wami yena kutholakale unomdlavuza ,isimo sakhe saqhubeka sidlanga ngelikhulu ishwa leli ,kwehlula siqhubeka simnxusela njengomndeni nabahlobo nebandla .Okwathatha…
Ukusiza izingane zigweme uungena kwi-addiction yokusebenzisa amaphilisi aqeda izinhlungu
Ngingenze njani ukuqinisekisa izingane zami azibambeki kwizidakamizwa ? Kunesikhathi ngifunda ngokuthi kuqala kancane ngamaphilisi ezinhlungu enganeni kwesinye isikhathi.Kuyishwa ukuthi izidakamizwa zempela zitholakala kalula ngisho emagcekeni ezikole.Engifuna ukukwazi ngempela ngukuthi kungani intsha ifuna ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa .Nokuthi yiziphi izinyathelo engingazithatha ukuvikela ingane ukungena ezingozini zezidakamizwa?
Unkulunkulu wethestamente elidala eqhathaniswa nowelisha
Kungani uNkulunkulu egcwele intukuthelo engaka kwiThestamente Elidala bese agcwale uthando kweLisha? Umngani wmai ongakholwa ungibuze lombuzo ukuze atshale imbewu yongabazane engqondweni yami .Ulethe impikiswano ethi ,indlela uNkulunkulu avezwe ngayo ezibhalwini akuyona emile futhi ebuye iziphikise yona ngesithombe sakhe.Lokho okungenze ngathi ukudla amathambo engqondo ngokuthe xaxa. Kukuphi okuvuna lomqondo ngokwebhayibheli?
Ukusiza umndeni onengane edinga unakekelo olwehlukile
Yiziphi izindlela esingasiza ngayo umndeni onengane edinga unakekelo ukuze siwuthwalise ? Sinomnyeni wami ebandleni lethu sinomngani onengane engahambi kahle iyatengezela .Siyazi ukuthi lomndeni ubhekene nezinto eziningi kakhulu ,manje sifisa ukufaka isandla kuwona.Ukhona umqondo eningasipha wona ukwenza lokhu kangcono?
Unkulunkulu nomuntu ngokokowesilisa nowesifazane-ubulili
Uma kungukuthi uNkulunkulu uqukethe ubulili bobubili kumbe uyibo bobubili – pho kungani abantu bengazikhetheli ubulili babo ngokuzithandela? Awuthi ngichaze engikushoyo . I-Focus On The Family ihlale ithi ukubuka kwayo ubulili ikusho ngokwezibhalo ezithi “ UNkulunkulu wamdala umuntu ngomfanekiso wakhe .Manje akeningiqondise uma kungukuthi ngizwa ngandlebenye la ,lamagama “ ngomfanekiso” okubandakanya…
Kusho ukuthini ukuthi -ukwenza konke ngokhrestu
Ngingenza konke ngoKhrestu” ngempela ? Ngaphandle kokuba nguMKhrestu oqinile ,ngisemusha ,ngigcwele umdlandla ,ngiyashisekela ngempilo .Okwenza ngibe nezinhlelo ezinkulu ,futhi ngifuna ukwenzela uNkulunkulu izinto ezinkulu . Uma ngikhuluma ,kuyangithokozisa lokho ,nabangani bami bayasho ukuthi hhayi nginamaphupho amakhulu impela. Uma ngicaphuna KwabaseFiliphu 4 :13 – “Nginamandla ukwenza konke ngaye ongiqinisayo” – baveze…
Inqubo yokuqondisa izigwgwe uma undodakazi waphelelwa wumendo wabuya nabazukulu
Njengogogo nomkhulu iyiphi indlela enhle yokuqondisa makunezigwegwe kubazukulu asebehlala nathi ? Undodakazi wethu usehlala nathi ,lokho okulethe izimo ezinzimanyana . Yiyiphi indlela enhle kakhulu ukubhekana nalesisimo ?
Ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokufuna ukwazi kobungane ngokobulili
Njengomzali ngingabona kanjani ukuthi ingane ifuna ukwazi nje nokuthi kunini lakhona ubulili bayo seyijulile ngabo ngokungafanele? Izingane zami zisemnyakeni lakhona seziqale ukubuza imibuzo .Lokho akunankinga ngokwakho,kodwa futhi sezibuye zikhombise olunye uhlobo lwe-interest .Njengolunye usuku engabafica ,omunye edlala ukuba ngudokotela ,lokho okwabe kwethusana kakhulu,kithi sonke.
Ubaba ukhungathekiswe yindodana efuna ukuzenzela izinto
Kungani undodana wami ehlale engafuni ngimfundise izinto ?Kusuka azalwa bengihlala ngisilindile lesikhathi lakhona ezobe esefundiseka ukwenza izinto zamadoda.Kodwa manje ngoba usemdala ngokwanele,akasafuni ngimfundise lutho.Mangithi ngiyazama ,uvese athi : “Baba khululeka ,ngiyakwazi ukuzenzela”. Akuyona ndlela le mina engabe ngicabange ukuthi ukuba ngu-baba kunjena .Ninazo izeluleko?
Umama akankamunkamu ngenkonzo yekamelo
Ngakube likhona yini iphutha ukuthi ukungafuni ukwenza inkonzo ezikhathini eziningi njengokuba umnyeni ehlale yena eyilangazelela? Ngiye ngizame ukumhlangabeza ndlela zonke ,ngikwenze ngothando kunye nokuyibuka njengemfanelo,kodwa kukhona izikhathi lakhona ngehluleka ukuhambisana naye ngisho ngingazama kanjani engqondweni .Lokhu kusikhungathekisile sobabili.
Owesifane ongena othandweni nendoda esikinatelwe zithombe zobunqunu
Ngakube ngiqhubeke yini nothando nensizwa esengithole ukuthi icwile ivele ngekhanda ezithombeni zobunqunu ezixakile ? Sisanda kungena othandweni nayo futhi amabombo abesezingxoxweni zomshado.Ngaphandle kwalokhu kuphela ,ungumuntu omuhle kakhulu kodwa ngiyazibuza ukuthi ekaze izithombe zakhe zobunqunu aziyilo yini uphawu lokungiphaphamisa.Nicabanga siqhubeke nohambo lwaluthando?
Unkosikazi oshiya umsebenzi ukuze abheke ikhaya
Ninazo izeluleko mayelana nowesifazane obesesikhundleni esiphezulu kakhulu ,osebone kungcono asidele azoqhuba inkonzo yokuba ngumama ebantwaneni ? Unkosikazi usesonqenqemeni lokungena kulesosinyathelo .Singangena kusona kanjani ngendlela e-smooth? Sifike kulesinqumo sobabili emva kwamahora ngamahora sikhuleka ngaso ,sixoxa futhi,kodwa mina ngisenemibuzo nongabazane.Ngasizathu sinye ,esokuthi ngingaqiniseka kanjani ukuthi sizoba nezezimali zomndeni ezanele?
Ukuqondisa izigwegwe kumele kuqale nini
Kunini lakhona okumele umzali aqale a-responde ezinkingeni zokuziphatha esigabeni sengane isencane ? Ngifuna ukuzwa umcabango wenu ikakhulukazi odabeni lwesikhathi esifanele –kunini la enicabanga kumele ngiqale ngiqondise izigwegwe enganeni yami? Njengosanda kungena ekubeni ngumama ngivulekile ukuthathatha inkombandlela nezeluleko kulengxenye .
Amathoyizi anesihluku nezinhlelo ze-tv
Ngakube ngimelwe ukukhathazeka ukuthi indodana yami esencane ichitha isikhathi eside ibuka izithombe ezinesihluku sokulwa kunye nezimakethe ezigcwele isihluku ? Ngokubuka kwenu ,loluhlobo lwezinhlelo luthuntubeza kanjani ukuziphatha kwezingane ?
Ingane enqathuzayo izishaye ngapha nangapha
Senze njani uma intombazanyana yethu ivese ivuke indlobane ingalawuleki sanhlobo isiwudlame lwangempela ? Ihlale njalo inenqondo eqinile [strong will] engasheshi ukuvuma into oyisho kuyona, kodwa mumva nje isebe sesimweni esisikhungathekise kakhulu la khona idlebelendele ngamalengiso .Kulesosimo usuke eshaya kwasani ephambi kwakhe ,ngisho naye imbala ezithanqaza .Yikuphi enikuphakamisayo?
I-teen ifuna ukusiza umama abe nokuqonda ngezinguquko ebudlelwaneni babo
Ngingamkhombisa kanjani uMawami ukuthi angiseyona ingane manje nokuthi ubudlelwane bethu sebuguqukile? Besihlale sisondelene njalo,kodwa sekwehlukile manje njengoba sengiyi-teenager .Okunye amaphutha ami.Kwesinye ngiba nama –mood futhi ngiyazi lokho kuziphatha kuyamlimaza kwesinye isikhathi.Ngifisa sengathi ubengaqonda ukuthi akukhona ukuthi ngizama ukumlimaza kumbe ukumqhelisa .Yingoba ngibhekene nemicabango eminingi engqondweni yami.Okubanzima kakhulu ngukuthi ngiye ngingaqondi…
Inkonzo yekamelo emva kokuhlinzwa isibeletho
Ngakube kungokwejwayelekile yini ukuthi umkhwenyana angabe esalangazelela inkonzo yekamero kuwe emva kokuhlinzwa amabele noma ukukhishwa isibeletho? Eminyakeni eminingana eyedlule ngake ngakhishwa isibeletho.Okuthe mumva nje ekutholakaleni komdlavuza webele kimi kwabe sekususwa ibele kimi ngokuhlinzwa.Lokho kunzima ngokwakho ,kodwa kuyedlulela kusukela ekuhlinzweni kokugcina ,umkhwenyana wami useqhelile kimina ngokwenhliziyo futhi ubukeka engasayingeni eyenkonzo yekamero…
Ongumkhrestu ongashadile ubhekene nokubhajwa ekuhuhweni ngubulili obufanayo
NjengoMKhrestu o–single osekhulile ongakaze akhangwe ngubulili obehlukile ngisho nanomshado imbala, niphakamisa ,ngihlabele kanjani phambili nempilo yami? Ngiyakholelwa ebumqokeni bomshado ,futhi kahle hle ngingumuntu okumfanele ngokuphelele-Ngiyinsizwa ephakathi ko 20 nento weminyaka esebenza kahle futhi enentshisekelo yokusebenzela iNkosi.Sengithole ngokumangala okukhulu ukuthi ,ngikhangwa ngabobulili obunjengobami.Angikwazi ukusho ukuthi sekube ngubuhlungu obunjani kimina .Ngiyazi ukuthi…
Isishabasheki esingumkhrestu ezinsukwini zokugcina
Uma kuyizinsuku zokugcina lezi ,kungani AmaKhrestu kumele athandaze aphinde azibandakanye kwezokwenza ngcono imiphakathi? Ama-ministry amaningi, njengale yenu ithi amakholwa mawahambise ivangeli ,akhulekele izisombululo zezinkinga ezinjengendlala nokuhlupheka,kusetshenzwe ukuguqula umthethosisekelo wezwe lethu .Nginenkinga enkulu kabi mina ngalokho.Ukulifunda kwami ibhayibheli ,nokuqonda kwami izinsuku zokugcina kungitshela ukuthi yisizukulwane sokugcina lesi futhi uKhrestu useyabuya masinyane…
Ukulekelela izingane ebunzimeni bokungezeka kwezifundo
Ngakube kungumqondo omuhle ukuba izingane zibe kwezemidlalo .Ama class okudansa ,izifundo zomculo nokunye okuyimisebenzi eseceleni ngokwemfundo yabo yesikole kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya? Okungakanani okwalezizinto osekukuningi kakhulu? Ningaphakamisa izinkombandlela ezinikana umqondo ophathekayo?