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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukusiza umfana ukuba abe yindoda
Mina nomyeni wami senze njani ukukhulisa indodana yethu ibe yindoda, uNkulunkulu afuna ibe yiyo?Kwesinye isikhathi ubukeka ekwesaba ukukhula ,nokuhambisana nakho ,sifuna aqunge isibindi .Kodwa futhi asifuni abe yibhubesi .Senze njani ukuletha i balance kulesisimo?
Usizi ukungabikho kobulungiswa nothando lukaNkulunkulu
uma kuwukuthi uNkulunkulu unobulungiswa futhi unothando kungani pho kube nosizi olungaka emhlabeni?Ngifuna ukukhulwa ubuhle bakhe ,nokho ukungabi bikho kobulungiswa kulokhukuphila kungenza ngicabange noma ekhona kodwa akanake lutho.Kungekudala nje umakhelwane wami ,indoda enomoya omuhle ilahlekelwe ingane yayo engozini yemoto ,kumshayeli obezidakelwe.LoNkulunkulu uvume kanjani umshayeli oyisidakwa aphume engenamyocu ? Engikushoyo kuncane nje…
AmaKhrestu nophuzo oludakayo
Lithini izwi ngokuthi qhabu? Ngibuziswa ukuthi sekuyanda emakholweni,kuyangena impela nje. Angazi noma ngizizwa kahle yini ngalesisimo ,yikho ngibuza izimvo zenu?
Okweshumi nokunikela ngesikhathi unezikweletu
Singaqubeka yini sikhiphe okweshumi ebandleni lethu ngesikhathi sisanciphisa izikweletu?Sinomkhwenyana wami sibhekene nentaba yesikweletu esiqonge kakhulu emva kweminyaka.Singakumisa kancane ukunikela size sinelise esibakweletayo?
Ucansi olunyamanye nocansi oluhlukumeza umqondo emshadweni
Uma kuwukuthi ucansi luyingxenye enamathele ebudlelwaneni obuphilile emshadweni-Ngakube lokho kuchazani emshadweni la khona ucansi seluwubuhlungu emqondweni wonkosikazi? Ngikulesosimo.Ziningi izizathu zalokhu ,kuzo asikho esithinta ukuhlukunyezwa phambilini kumbe ukuphatheka kabi ngokwenkonzo.Ingxenyana ingombuzo wezinhlungu nokungazizwa kahle ngokwenyama ,nokho inking ‘enkulu ucansi olunganabumsulwa umkhwenyana wami angifaka kulo . Kade wakinatelwa yi-pornography ngakho-ke uye afune…
UKukhulelwa emva kuka 40 weminyaka
Ikuphi esingakulindela ngokukhulelwa usumdala? Siqeda kuthola ukuthi umkami ukhulelwe ,kanti useko 40.Sijabule nokho sinovalo.Sesivele sinabo abantwana abathathu sebengama teenager ,so ke asethesiwe ukukhulelwa.Kodwa ngakube kukhona yini okusemqoka okumele sikwazi ngokukhulelwa emva kuka 40?
UMama osebenzayo usebunzimeni bokwenza isikhathi sezingane
Ebutaseni bokuvuka njalo ngiye emsebenzini ,nasekhaya ngihlalelwe eyakhona imisebenzi ,pho isikhathi nabantabami ngingasenza kanjani? Kubukeka usuku lulufushane ukwenza konke.Ningangiluleka nithini?
Unkosikazi ukhathazekile ngomkhwenyana ode eba nemihlangano ngasese nomqashi wesifazane
Umkhwenyana wami axhumane kanjani nomqashi wakhe wesifazane? Kancane kancane nje udinga ukuxoxa naye ngomsebenzi kodwa kube sesitha ,so uyaye abhukhe I lunch naye bobabili.Hhayi mina angiyizwa kahle lendaba kodwa yena akanankinga ngoba uthi esikhundleni akuso kuyinjwayelo.Hle hle mangase ngiveze ukukhathezeka kwami ngizomkhuba ngokomsebenzi wakhe.Nicabanga kanjani futhi enze njani?
Ingcindezi nokuzibulala kwamabhungu namatshitshi
Sengizwe kaningi ngenkinga yabasha abazibulalayo .Ngakube loluchungechunge olukhombisa ukuba kwabo nengcindezi ,lungenza ibhungu lami nalo libe kulencuphe yokuzibulala na? Yibuphi ubudlelwane obuphakathi kwengcindezi nokuzibulala? Ngingayitholaphi indawo engasiza undodana wami?
Ukugqugquzela izingane ukunyakazisa umzimba
Yikuphi esingakwenza umfana wethu angade egqolozelene ne TV kodwa simbone futhi esemnyango enyakazisa nomzimba.Sikhathazwa umphumela wezempilo azoba nawo mayehlala ehleli nje .Singamshukumbisa kanjani anyakanyakaze,maside simbelesela nje hhayi ukuthela amanzi emhlane wedada.Akhona amasu eningasipha wona?
Ukugcina umuzwa wocansi useqophelweni emshadweni
Indoda ingazigcina kanjani isogqozini locansi nomkayo emumva kweminyaka bashada? Uthi UJesu osebuke owesifazane ngenkanuko ,usemphingile enhliziyweni [NgokukaMathewu 5:28],manje kimi akuwenzi umqondo ngoba ukulangazelela kocansi kuhlale kuyimfihlo yokuzwayo.Intokazi enhle engiyiqalayo nje ukuyazi ivese ingihlabe umxhwele .Ngakwelinye icala unkosikazi wami angabi namxhwele ngoba vele sengiyamazi. Kuyazenzakalela ngemvelo ,ngisizeni bazalwane ngenze njani ngoba…
Ukuhlela isikhathi sokuqala ukuthola abantwana makuqedwa ukushadwa
Mhalmbe singake siqale sizinze emshadweni bese kuyila sithola abantwana? Sisebasha nje sisekuma 20 s.Umakoti wami yila eqeda izifundo zakhe nami ngisasungula kahle ibhizinisi lami.Sisatatazela ,anginaso isiqiniseko sengikulungele ukuba wubaba.Kukhona umqondo eninawo osivuna ukuqala umndeni mase sizinzile
Ukuthemba uNkulunkulu ezikhathini ezinzima
Uma izinto zingahambi kahle ngibambelela kanjani eNkosini? NjengoMKhrestu ngiyaqonda kumele ngibonge konke futhi ngibheke eNkosini ngezidingo zosuku nosuku.Nokho ngiqhamuka nyakenye esimweni esimanhlembethwane.Kulezikhathi ke ngimbonga kanjani uNkulunkulu? Ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizozama ukukuphendula kafuphi.
Umkhwenyana Okhuluma Amagama Ahlukumezayo,Ubaba Ufuna Ukushintsha
’Ngingehlukana kanjani ukubevuza ngihlukumeze umkami nezingane zami? Ngifuna manje ukuba umkhwenyana nobaba o-right.Sengifuna ukushintsha ukukhuluma kwami .Ningangilekelela ngishintshe na?
Umzali ozizwa enecala ngokufeyila komntwana kwezemfundo
Singabazali sibhekana kanjani nobuhlungu bokuphinda I class komntwana? Singamsiza kananjani azone kungani engaphasanga? Uma beqala ukumhleka abanye abafundi sense njani
Indoda nesimo sokungasebenzi
Ngakube ubaba ongasebenzisi’ mubi kunongakholwayo’,njengoba kungathi uPawuli ubeka kanjalo ku 1 Thimothewu 5:8? Angiqondi ngempela? Nginezinyanga eziwu 8 ngadilizwa ,okwamanje iholo lalayikhya litholakala kumama ngisho nangesikhathi ngisasebenza ngangehluleka ukondla ngelami lodwa.Manje ke abafundisi nabasakazi bathi yithi okumele sondle imindeni yethu.Kuyiva kimi lokhu ,nisho ukuthi iNkosi ingibona ngiyisahluleki?
Ukubheka izimpendulo emkhulekweni
UNkulunkulu ukuphendula kanjani ukunxusa? Angiboni zithelo ezitheni ngokunxusa kwami ngomtanami owukhandalimtshelokwakhe.Futhi sekuguge amadolo.Kukhona yini la ngingakhuleki kahle ? Ngiwajikisele kwenye indawo amehlo kulezimpendulo na?
Izimangaliso-izimpawu nezimanga zakulezinsuku
Ngakube niyakholwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu usazenza izimanga ? Amakholwa akholelwa ezimangalisweni athi simelwe ukwenza imisebenzi uJesu ayeyenza , ‘nemikhulu kuleyo” [Johane 14 : 12]. Abanye bakholelwa ngukuthi kwafika ekuphetheni okwezimangaliso sekugoqwa ngeThestamente Elisha . Kuthini ukubuka kwenu?
Umshado emva kokuphela kwempilo
Ngakube ngiyoba ndawonye nomnyeni wami eZulwini ? Wedlule emhlabeni kulonyaka ,okwenze kwanzima ukuphila impilo ngaphandle kwakhe .Umngani wami ungiduduze ngokuthi angikubeke enhliziyweni ukuthi siyobonana nomnyeni wami eZulwini lusuku lumbe .Kodwa masisha omunye umngani wathi kimi ,cha ubudlelwano esinabo la abuyikufana mase siseZulwini ngokwamazwi ashiwo nguJesu .Kusuka lapho inhliziyo yami inkenkethe…
Amantombazane amancane namaphupho ngosaziwayo
Ngakube kuhle yini entombazaneni esencane ukuba ithathwe ngosaziwayo abathile kwi-TV ? Undodakazi uyazifela ngabo useze wanameka izithombe zabo zagcwala ikamero lakhe lonke .Lokho okungenza ngiphatheke kabi ngoba angazi ukuthi inqubo yabo ixhumana kanjani nokuziphatha kwentombazane nowesifazane ngokwebhayibheli .Okudlulele ngukuthi angimfuni ukumbona elubekela empilweni naye ukuzokwangiwa yilama –Charmer avezwa kulabosaziwayo bamantombazane…