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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukubuka ngeso le-bhayibheli ukungena komkhrestu kwi – fine arts
Ngokokubuka kwebhayibheli ikhona indawo evumelanayo ne-Arts kulona, kumbe yintshisekelo nje yabantu bezomhlaba ? Singabona kanjani i-art enhle nembi? Indodakazi yethu ,ingumfundi we-art e university ,manje sinokukhathazekela ukuthi imosha nje amandla nesikhathi sayo.Ikakhulukazi sikhathazeke kakhulu ngengxenye yezokuziphatha kulokhu ekwenzayo-iclass lakhe elingokudweba izithombe zasekuphileni limdinga adwebe abantu abanqunu benotho abalwenzayo! Ninomuzwa onjani…
Ukuya emcimbini womndeni one-couple ebulili-bunye
Siye yini emcimbini womndeni lakhona ne –couple eyizinkonkoni izobe ikhona? Udadewabo womnyeni wami ushade nenye intokazi .Lezintokazi ezinhle siyazithanda zombili kodwa asivumelani nempilo eziyiphilayo.Kunomcimbi omkhulu ekupheleni konyaka ,manje umnyeni ufuna siye nathi.Nami ngiyafuna ukuya ,kodwa sinezingane ezintathu ezisencane ,futhi angazi kuzozithinta kanjani lokhu .Ngenze njani?
Ukuya emcimbini womndeni one-couple ebulili-bunye
Siye yini emcimbini womndeni lakhona ne –couple eyizinkonkoni izobe ikhona? Udadewabo womnyeni wami ushade nenye intokazi .Lezintokazi ezinhle siyazithanda zombili kodwa asivumelani nempilo eziyiphilayo.Kunomcimbi omkhulu ekupheleni konyaka ,manje umnyeni ufuna siye nathi.Nami ngiyafuna ukuya ,kodwa sinezingane ezintathu ezisencane ,futhi angazi kuzozithinta kanjani lokhu .Ngenze njani?
Ukulawula ukudinwa kuma-teenager
Ngingamsiza kanjani undodana wami oseyi –adoloscent ukuba abhekane nokudinwa kwakhe? Kulula ukuphawula ukuthi uthukuthele kakhulu ngokuthizeni,kodwa nginomuzwa oqinile wokuthi ,uyayivalela ayicindezele imizwa yakhe yenhliziyo.Ngizamile ngebengingakwenza,ngehluleka ukumenza akhulume ngayo.Ngenze njani?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 2 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubengi – shendeza. Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela, kungikhungathe kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe, namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje, futhi angikazi ngenze njani .ningangipha indlela?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 1 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubene shende .Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela ,kungikhungathekise kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe ,namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje ,futhi angikazi ngenze njani .Ningangipha indlela ?
Ukungena emshadweni usesikhungweni semfundo ephakeme
Ngakube mina nengizwa uthando naye, sishade phambi kokuba si thole iziqu? Sobabili singaMaKhrestu asevuthiwe, futhi senze isibophezelo sokuzigcina simsulwa ngokocansi kuze kube semshadweni.Sesixhumane emva kwezinyanga ezingu 5, okuthe emva kwesikhathi eside sithandaza ,sanquma ukushada eminyakeni emibili. Abazali bethu bavuma kodwa abami bakhalaza ngesikhathi esisinqumayo. Ngino 19 weminyaka futhi ngunyaka wokuqala…
Ukungqubuzana kukababa nondodakazi
Ngingakuletha kanjani ukuzwana phakathi kwe- teenager yethu nomnyeni wami? Njalo uma uyise emlanda esikoleni kuba ngukuthi uqala impi naye kumbe amnike inkulumo ende ukumtshela ukuthi wehluleka kangakanani ezifundweni zakhe.Bese undodakazi akhulume kimi ediniwe kumbe ekhala .Amabanga esikole asehlale eyinkinga kundodakazi wethu, futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi simelwe ukwenza konke esingakwenza ukumgcina ekhaliphile…
Ukunamathela ngenhliziyo komunye oseceleni kanye nokuholela kwi-sahlukaniso
Ngakube uthando lwangasese oluncike kwimizwa yenhliziyo kuphela uma lude luphindeka ,ibhayibheli liyakuvumela ukuba uhlukanise ngenxa yalo? Ngezindlela eziningi umkhwenyana unamathele ngothando lwenhliziyo kwabanye abesifazane lokho osekulethe ufa emshadweni wethu .Okuse fresh nje okubandakanya intokazi ubesondelene nayo kakhulu ngenhliziyo .Ngikhathele ukulokhu ephika ,nanxa sesibe kwi counseling amahlandla amaningi ,alukho uphawu engilubona…
Ukubhekana nentsha engamavila
Ngingawagqugquzela kanjani ama teenager ami amabili angamavila?Awakwazi nokungisiza ngomsebenzi wasendlini, futhi bayaziba kuze kube ngumzuzu wokugcina kuyila enza umsebenzi wawo wesikole. Njengomzali ongayedwana angibi nawo amandla okubafaka ngempoqo emsebenzini.Ikhona yini indlela yokunqamula lenqubo kubona?
Ukulawula inzalo nokubuka okungokufa
Ngakube kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kokulawula inzalo nokuhushula? Mina nonkosikazi wami siyathanda ukuba nomndeni lusuku lumbe, kodwa ngezizathu ezithile, sibona asikakulungeli lokho okwamanje. Kuleminyaka emibili sishadile sibufunile ubuso beNkosi ngenkombandlela futhi asizange sibe nokungabaza ngesinqumo sethu sokuthi ukuqhubela phambili kancane ukuletha izingane, ngokuthi sikwenze lokho ngendlela yokulawula inzalo okwamanje sisebasha emshadweni…
Okumele ukucabange phambi kokuqhelelana
Ningakukhuthaza ukuqhelelana emshadweni ozizwa usufike kwangqingetshe? Iminyaka eminingi umshado wethu ubhekene nesifo esiqhubekayo sokulimala ekujuleni.Ngaphansi kwalesisimo , ngizibuza engabe kungcono yini ukuqhelelana okwesikhashana.Ngakolunye uhlangothi ngikhathazeke ngezingane zethu .Nicabanga senze njani?
Ongumkhrestu ongena othandweni nongakholwa
Ngakube ku-right yini ukungena othandweni nowesilisa ongangeni sanhlobo kwezakwaKhrestu? Ezinyangeni ezingu 6 ezedlule wafaka isicelo sothando kimi ,nanxa ngalesosikhathi ngabona kungumqondo ongemuhle ,kodwa ngasemukela.Manje inhliziyo yami isithe neh kuyena futhi angazi ngenzenjani .Ngisothandweni kuye ngokujulile,kuphela uma engazinikela kuJesu ,ngale kwalokho ngizizwa kunzima ukuthi siqhubeke nokungena emshadweni naye .Khona lapho futhi…
Ingane ehlale iqaphile kweqe
Ngakube simelwe ukukhathazeka ngengane esabayo ukuthatha ama risk kweqe? Umnyeni wami ucabanga simelwe ukuqinisa isandla impela -iphoqwe ukubhekana nesimo sokwesaba kwayo.Mina nginomuzwa imelwe ukunikwa ithuba ize ibe nokuzethemba ngokwayo. Nibona ndlelani ?
Ukwenza i-valentine’s day ibe-positive ezinganeni
Ningangisiza ngomqondo onempilo ukusiza izingane zami zigubhe ngendlela i-valentine? Ngangivamise ukuwuthanda u-14 February ngiseyingane ,ngithanda nezingane zami zibe nalowomuzwa .Kodwa angifuni ukufaka umqondo ongesiwo wothando .Yikuphi eningakuphakamisa?
Ingane enovalo ngokuba yodwa
Singabhekana kanjani nomuzwa wovalo olukhulu kwindodana yethu eno 8 weminyaka ukusala yodwa? Ilala ekamerweni elilodwa nodadewabo ngoba yesaba ukulala yodwa .Ngeke umthole edlala yedwa ekamerweni lakhe ngaphandle uma kunomuntu khona .Esikhathini esiphambilini wake wazama ukuba yedwa ,wayevevezela [ejuluka ehefuzela ] .Uhlakaniphe kakhulu ,wenza kahle esikoleni impela ,udlala nekeyboard namadrum nezemidlalo…
Ingane enomoya ongemuhle
Yikuphi esingakwenza ukuthuthukisa umoya wokubuka impilo ngendlela enhle kundodana wethu? Uhlala ekhalaza ngayo yonke into futhi kuyathukela ebukeka ethokozile.Lomoya wakhe ongemuhle usuphazamise nomsebenzi wakhe wesikole ,futhi ngiqinisekile ukuthi umphazamise ngisho nokuxhumana nabangani.
Ukufundisa izingane ngokuzidela
Ngakube kumele ngizifundise izingane zami ngobumqoka bokuzidela? Asizwa kakhulu ngakho ebandleni kulezinsuku ,bese kuthi isikompilo labantu basemhlabeni alikugqizi qakala sanhlobo.Kodwa anginaso isiqinisekiso ukuthi izingane zethu zizoqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukulandela uJesu uma silahla lengxenye yobizo lomfundi kaJesu.
Izimpawu zobungozi be –social media kuma –couple ashadile
Ningangipha inkombandlela ukuthi okungakanani ukuxhumana kwi - social media okufanele kumuntu oshadile uma bubandakanya umuntu wobunye ubulili? Ngakube zikhona izimpawu eziphayizayo uma ubudlelwano obu online sebunobungozi ukweqa umugqa wokungafanele?
Ukuhlonipha i-teenager yakho
Ngingalinika kanjani iteenager lami inhlonipho elifanele? Ngingavuma ukuthi siyangqulana ngamakhanda kaningi –uluhlobo oludinga ukuqondiswa nokuholwa okuningi,okuphetha ngokuthi kungabi kuhle endlini .Kodwa angikholwa ngukuthi kukhona engikwenzile okumehlisa isithunzi njengomuntu. Kuchaza ukuthini ukuthi “umzali ahloniphe ingane?” ngakube ngingavese ngimdedele enze ngendlela yakhe –ngilokothe?