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Ukukhulelwa ungashadile qede umfana anagfuni ukuba ngubaba
Isoka lami ngingalikhuthaza kanjani liqonde sekuyaphoqa libe ngubaba?Inyanga yokugcina le ngikhulelwe ,kodwa kuze kube manje akukho akwenzayo.Wangiqonda ngqo!wangitshela emehlweni ukuthi akakaziboni ewubaba.Emva kweminyaka emibili usede eqhela kimi ,bese ngithi mhlampe ingane izosihlanganisa.Ngimdinelwe ,futhi ngifuna ukuhlukana naye ,inkinga nje ingane.Angikwazi ukukhulisa ingane yethu ngedwa ,ngisho kuthiwa ngingakwazi angeke ngikwenze .Ningangisiza?
Ukunqubuzana nokuklwebhana kwezingane
Singamisa kanjani ngamadodakazi ethu enye ino 13 enye ino 7 weminyaka Bengahlali belwa.Ngibona imiphumela yakho konke lokulwa kwabo iyogcina inokulimala .Siwumndeni okholwayo ngakho ke sesibafundise kaningi ukuba mnene ,nothando nokuthethelelana .Emva kwalesosifundiso baye bathembise bazoshinstha kodwa emva kwesikhathi ubone ukuthi bekuyiculo nje.Kunini lakhona okumele sibone lokhu kulwa kwabo, sekuphimile esandleni…
Umkhwenyana wami uhlukumeza izingane zami ngamazwi nengaphakathi
Umkhwenyana wami akakaze asihlukumeze ngokomzimba ,kodwa uhlale njalo engcofa izingane ukuba zizizwe zingelutho.Isibonelo ;uzitshela ziyiziphukuphuku namavila.Umfana wethu akamkhuthazi kwezemidlalo.Utshela undodakazi ukuthi mubi unemicondo .Ziyazama izingane ukumziba ziqinise ubuso kuye.Kodwa mina ngiyabona izingqondo zazo ziyezwela kulokhu kugxekwa.Ngifuna ukuzisiza kodwa ngifuna futhi ukuba umama othobekile.Ngikhathazekile uzophendula kanjani uma ngimqonda .Ngenzenjani?
Sivikela kanjani intsha ekuzifakeni ocansini online
Yiziphi izinto engingazenza ukuvimba umuntu omusha wami angazifaki ocansini ngemiqhafazo?Ngikhathazekile uma ngifunda ukuthi izinga likhula kangakanani ezinganeni ezithe shi kulolubishi ngama –phone.Ngiyaqonda futhi ukuthi imiphumela ingaba ngenzulu.Ngakolunye uhlangothi angazi ukuthi yini engingayenza ukuvikela lesisimo.Nicabangani?
Umama ofuna uthande yena yedwa noma usumdala
Ningangiluleka nithini ngoMawami onomona ngami ufuna ngiphathwe nguye kuphela?Nakuba nami sengagana ngathola nezingane zami kodwa nje usangiphathisa okwengane . Mina kuyangijabulisa ukunamathela kuye kodwa yena uyeqisa,futhi ufuna sibe ngabangani bomhlaba! Uze anyukubale uma ngizihlalele nobaba kumbe amanye amalunga omndeni.Ngisho omalume no anti makunezipho abafuna ukungijabulisa ngazo yena uhlale efuna sengathi…
Unkosikazi ongenkamunkamu nezingane afice umkhwenyana enazo
Unkosikazi engishade naye manje akanaluzwelo ngezingane zami engangizithole konkosikazi wokuqala.Sezizonke izingane zethu ziwu -4 –Eziwu 2 ezami zomshado wokuqala-eziwu 2 ezethu kulo-Kodwa ukhonze ezizalwa nguye kuphela.Sisaqala wayekhombisa ukuzimukela,kodwa manje akasazizwa sanhlobo enhlizyweni yakhe.Loluhlobo lwento luyenzeka kuyo yonke imindeni enabantwana abahlukene? Ngenze njani ngalesisimo?
Ukubuyisa ukuthembana emshadweni
Singenze njani ukubuyisela ukuthembana emva kweminyaka ebe nezimo ezibuhlungu emshadweni wethu ebezidinga ukuthethelelana sobabili? Singakubuyisa kanjani ukuthembana ebudlelwaneni bethu?
Ubuzali obuqotho phakathi ezihlotsheni eziziphilelela ngenkambo ephansi
Ingempela ngempela sizikhulisa kanjani izingane zethu la khona abangani nozalo bephila ngendlela ephambene nezinkambiso zethu? Singumndeni oqatha okholwayo sifuna izingane zethu ziphila ngenkambo yobuKhrestu.Nokho akusibo bonke abaphila njengathi,ngisho o anti,obaba nomakhelwane bamelene nenkambo yoBuKhrestu futhi bafuna ukukhipha konke esikufaka ezinganeni zethu.Senzenjani kulesosimo?
Ukuqondisa ingane ehlale ibaleka
Ubhekana kanjani nengane ezenzela okwayo ,okuthi mase uyibiza ivese ibaleke ngoba ibona izojeziswa?Makuke nje kwanenkinga uyanyamalala ,sekomele side simjaha,ungasayiphathi eyokumqondisa.Ngakube lokhu kujwayelekile ,sibhekane kanjani nakho?
Ukuchama njalo ebusuku kwengane esikhulile
Singammisa kanjani umfana wethu ukuchama njalo? Singathola kanjani umnyombo walokhu kuchama esemdala? Kuyakhathaza ukuwasha njalo izingubo zakhe zokulala esezibhukudise ngomchamo.Sengilahlakelwe ukubekezela futhi naye ngiyambona ulimele ngokuthi sengidiniwe.Sikhona isisombululo kulenkinga?
Ukufundisa izingane inhlonipho esikhathini engasangenwa khona
Ngingafundisa kanjani isizotha ezinganeni zami ngoba sekubukeka kuyinto esikhohlakala ezinganeni nakwabadala.Kusemqoka kimi kodwa ngibuka ubunzima besikhathi esikuso. Ngingabafundisa kanjani abami bebe nomozwa ngomunye umuntu njengoba sesiphila nje esikhathini lakhona abantu bengesenandaba nomunye?
Umnyeni wami uyahlukumezana emzimbeni
umkhwenyana wami usebe nomkhuba wokuba wudlame emshadweni wethu wonke.Ngizizwa ngagaxela la.Kwezinye izikhathi ngisabela ukuphepha kwami,kodwa angazi ngintunte ngiyephi.Ningangisiza’
Ukubhekana nomamezala ohluphayo
Ngibhekane kanjani nomamezala wami ekungangikholweni kwakhe ukukhulisa izingane zami ,uvese angihahabeze phambi komyeni wami nezingane.Sekwenele manje! Ngenze njani?
Ingane enenkinga yokuqamba amanga
Kodwa intombazane yami ngingayimisa kanjani amanga? Ngimbamba njalo esungula izinganenkwane ekhaya kodwa nguye futhi kimi ode ekhala ngokuthi izingane eskoleni azikholwa yilutho alushoyo.Ngakube unesipho sokusungula ingxoxo noma inkinga yamanga nje?
-DELETED- Izeluleko Kuma-Teenager Noku Nokuxoxa Online
Uthini umbono wenu nge –teenager ezibandakanye ne –social network kunye ne –online chat rooms?Sengike ngafunda izinkulumo zamanye ama teen kuma –sites indodakazi yami efuna ukungena kuwona ,futhi abukeka engenabungozi .Nokho nginokusabela ukulahlekelwa ngukulawula ingane yami ,igcine iphethwe ngontaka bayo.Ngakube kumele ngikhathazeke?
Ngakube ingcindezi iyisono
Umbuzo othi ngakube ingcindezi iyisono ,abaningi imvamisa bazibuza wona uma bebhekene nemizwa ebuhlungu enhlizyweni.
Ukubuka ukugembula ngokwebhayibheli
Ngakube ngempela ibhayibheli lithi kubi ukugembula? Ngiyabona ukuthi nakho kunjengoku dansa nokudlala amakhadi –amakholwa aqinisa kakhulu, amelene nakho.nokho angikholwa kunezisekelo zezwi azisebenzisa ukumelana nakho mina engikubuka kuwumdlalo nje ongenabungozi.
Hleze umkhwenyana ubishe ezithombeni zobunqunu
Ngenze njani uma ngikholwa ukuthi umkhwenyana wami ubuka izithombe zobunqunu ezixakile? Kanginabo ubufakazi obuqanda ikhanda kodwa nginazo izinsolo eziseka lokhukwesaba enginakho.Uvese abhoke ngolaka uma ngike nje ngathi ngakhuluma ngalesihloko athi ngidlala imicabango nje .Ningiluleka nithini?
Ibhayibheli nocansi phambi komshado kunye nokuziphatha ngokozwecansi
Yikuphi ngempela la khona ibhayibheli lithi kuyicala ukulala ngaphandle komshado? Abazali bami bahlala bengiyala njalo ngokuthi izwi lisiyalela singayi ocansini phambi komshado.Manje ngoba sengikhulile sengikwazi ukuzicabangela ,sengiqala ukuyingabaza leyonto.Angikakaqondani nento ebhayibhelini evumelana nalombono wabo.Okwedlulele ukuthi angikatholi simo lakhona ibhayibheli likhuluma ngomshado wasesontweni! UIsaka no Rebheka abazange bashade esontweni.Bazihlanganela bazilalela kwaphela…
Oshadile uthola imiyalezo ehuhanayo engokocansi
Ngibhekane kanjani nesimo lakhona uwakwami ethola imiyalezo ehuhanayo nengalungile kw- social media? Ngizithele kulokho ekhasini lakhe ,kusukela lapho ngikhathazekile.Ngenzenjani ngalesisimo?