Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ingane enenkani ayifuni ukulala
Impi yesikhathi sokulala enganeni iyinto evamile ekhaya, isikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho inenkani lokho okwenza ukhameke kakhulu futhi uma ungazimisele ukuba nenkani yokubekezela nawe ungagcina wehluliwe.
Umzali oyedwana olangazelele ukusizwa, kanye nokuthola ozobambisana naye
Njengomama o-single nezingane ezintathu ezisencane,ngakube kuhle kimi ukufuna omunye umuntu ongaba yi-support kimina ukuthwala lomthwalo? Ngangivamise ukuzizwa nginelisekile ,kodwa umthwalo wokukuthwala konke ngingedwa ,uya ngokuya ungisinda.Ngisebenza fulltime ,ngiyafunda online futhi ,ngiphinde ngibe semsebenzini webandla engikulona.Zikhona izeluleko eninazo kumuntu osesimweni sami?
Lithini ibhayibheli ngokuzixolela wena
Into enhle nekhululanayo ngokuba nguMKhrestu ngukuthi uKhrestu wafela ukuxolelwa kwezono zethu. Kodwa waphinde uJesu wafundisa amakholwa ukuxolelana njengokuba naye esixolele. Inkonzo yokuletha ukuthethelela kwabanye abantu, kungakhathalekile inzima kanjani, kodwa okungangabazwa ngayo la okholweni kwaKhrestu. Uma sekuziwa ekuzixoleleni ngamaphutha esiwenzile, ngolunye-ke udaba lolo. Mhlawumbe izono esezadlula ziyakwengama futhi awunasiqinisekiso ukuthi uzodlula…
Intsha negebe lomuzwa wezocansi
Kungani uNkulunkulu wanika ama-teenager ukulangazelela okukhulu kwezocansi ,bese aphinde engaba esawanika indlela enempilo yokukunelisa ? Kubukeka lokhu kungekho -fair. Ezikhathini zasebhayibhelini abantu babeshada bebancane. Ngenxa yalokho ,kwakuyimpilo ukushesha ungene kwezocansi nokukhulisa izingane usemncane. Kodwa kulezinsuku ,abantu abaningi bayanyukubala uma ama- teenager eshesha engena ocansini. Kungani uNkulunkulu asinike lemizwa uma singeke…
Imingcele enganeni egula ngengqondo esikhulile
Singasungula kanjani inqubo yokuziphatha ngengane esikhulile ,ephazamiseke engqondweni? Ngakube imingcele yethu imelwe ukufana naleyo yezingane ezejwayelekile? Kumbe kunendlela ekhethekile yesimo sayo?
Abazali bakhathazekile nge-homework eningi
Ngenze njani uma ingane yami esafunda e-primary ine- homework eningi kakhulu ,okugcina kwehlisa nesikhathi sokuba ndawonye siwmundeni? Njalo ntambama uba namahora amaningi awasebenzisa enza ama-assignment. Ngokokubuka kwami kwamanje akathathi kancane ekuqedeni emsebenzini. Yingoba muningi kakhulu umsebenzi wakhe. Ngakube wonke lama –homework amangaka adingekile ekufundeni nasekuthuthukeni kwempilo yengane esakhula?
Impi yokugqoka ngokuhlonipheka kunye nezingubo kubazali nentsha
Uma kungukuthi undodakazi wakho oyi-teenager ukuqhumisa ikhanda ngezamafeshini, nakanjani umelwe ukuhlala nathi ohlelweni Ezomndeni ngoba sizokhuluma ngendaba yempi yokugqoka ngokuhlonipheka nezingubo kubazali nama-teenager.
Ukusiza ingane ibhekane nempilo yesahlukaniso
Ngingawasiza kanjani ama teenager ami abhekane nokuklayeka komshado wami? Kubuhlungu kithi sonke,kodwa ngikhathazeke kakhulu ngondodana wami omdala .Kusuka uyise wangishiya emva konyaka,ubukeka ezifaka engcindezini enkulu ukuba yindoda layikhaya.Lokhu kunzima kakhulu kuyena ngoba ngonyaka ozayo ubebheke ukuya e –university .Manje ubona kumphoqa alekelele ekhaya.Ngenze njani ngaye nazo zonke ezinye izingane?
Ukukhuthaza umoya wokuncokola enganeni yakho
Siyisiza kanjani ingane ebukeka ingenawo umoya wokuncokola?Umndeni wethu uhlale njalo uthokozela ukubuye uphubuke wuhleko ,ngaphandle kwalondodana wethu omdala osemaklasini aphakathi eprimary.Izingane zethu ezincane zihlale zigcwele ukuntela ,okwenza kuhlale kuhlekwa ekhaya.Kodwa ngokuphambene,ubhuti wabo omdala soze walibona elakhe izinyo .Uhlale e -serious kakhulu yena.Ngangithi yisikhathi esizodlula,kodwa kuze kube yimanje kuthe gqwa gqwa…
Ukuthandana ngenhliziyo kunye nobungane obuqhubekayo
Ngakube mina nomnyeni wami sibunqamule ubungani nenye i-couple ngenxa yokuthi nje lendoda nami sivese sangena ekuthandaneni ngokwenhliziyo kuphela ? Sekwadlula manje,futhi nowakwami nonkosikazi walendoda bathatha isinqumo esiqinile , esigcwele umoya wokubuyisana kuyo yonke lento eyenzeka.Ngazizathu thizeni ,sesamisa nokuhlanganyela ndawonye okwesikhashana.Ngisho ngokwethembeka nje ,sekube yingxenye le ebe ngenzima kulo lonke loludaba.Kungukulahlekelwa…
Ukubhekana nokulwa kwabandawonye
Uma kunengane engaphezu kweyodwa ekhaya, nakanjani ungangibuza ungiphale ulimi, kuzoba khona uhlobo oluthile lokulwa. Umbuzo usekuthini okungakanani ukulwa ezinganeni ekhaya okumelwe umzali akuvumele futhi abhekene nakho?
Inkambo enhle yobukhrest iqhathaniswa nengcindezi yezocansi
Ngakube ukuziphatha kahle ngokwezocansi ngokobuKhrestu akunampilo futhi akukho oemvelweni? Ngingowesifazane ozama ukuphila impilo emsulwa ,kodwa owesilisa engingena naye othandweni uhlala njalo engicindezela.Uthi umuzwa wami ngobumsulwa kwezocansi kungumuzwa nje ongenampilo wokwesaba –ngokuthi ngokuzama ukugculisa uNkulunkulu ,ngilahala ubuhle bemvelo nezinjabulo zokuphila njengokokuba uNkulunkulu wazidala .Ngiya ngokuya ngikuthola kunzima ukumphendula uma ekhuluma ngalendlela.Ningangipha…
Ukukhula ngokobukhrestu kunye nendlela yokukhula
Kungani kudonsa kimi ukukhula njengoMKhrestu? Sengibe yikholwa isikhathi impela ,futhi ngimelwe ukuvuma ukuthi izinga lokukhula kwami kwezikamoya lingithena amandla.Ngamhla ngizalwa ngokusha ,ngakithi impilo izoba ngenzima kusuka lapho kuya phambili,kodwa emva kweminyaka ngizithola ngingakabi yilomuntu engangifuna ukuba nguyena.Angibuzwa ubukhona bukaNkulunkulu ndlelanye engangibuzwa ngayo ekuqaleni.Ngiyazi ukuthi enhlizyweni yami ukwesaba nokuzicabangela mina ,kuyisikhisi…
Ingane izibuza ukuthi engabe izilwane ziyaya yini ezulwini
Ngakube izilwane zami o-doggy doggy bayoya nami eZulwini? Ngiphatheke kabi ngoba inja yami isandanakufa .Sesibe naleyonja ekhaya ,kusuka ngazalwa ,manje angiyiboni impilo eyoba mnandi lo -doggy doggy engekho .Ngike ngabuza uMawami ukuthi soyibona yini eZulwini ,uvese wathi angiyobuza uthisha wami kasontoskole,ovese wathi yena ,cha iZulu elabantu akulona elezilwane.lokho kungiphathe kabi.Nicabanga…
Ubudlelwano obuguqukayo kwi-teen
Ngakube kungokwejwayelekile ukuthi ubudlelwano bengane nomzali buguquke uma isiyi-teen? Bengihlala njalo ngiseduze kundodakazi wami,kodwa izinto azisefani njengokuba eseyi-teeanger.Angisakwazi ukuxhumana naye-Uhlale njalo e-texter kumbe exhumana nabangani bakhe nge- cellphone yakhe .Ngizizwa sengathi ngilahlekelwe yinto eligugu kimi.Ngenzenjani?
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli ukuzikhipha ekwakheni nabantu
Nicabangani ngamaKhrestu athatha inqubo yokuzikhipha kubantu ayokwakha wodwana?Adayise imizi yawo ,ayokwakha ehlane wodwa ezintabeni,alayishe ukudla ,ayozitshalela izitshalo zawo ,ayophila njengabasunguli bese elwela ngawo wonke amandla ukuzimela kwinqubo yokuphila yomhlaba? Baninganyana abantu engibaziyo asebethathe lendlela.Angibaphikisi ngokuphelele ekugcineni,ngikholwa sonke singangcono uma singathi ukuzihlubula ubuntofontofo bobumnandi bempucuko bese sifunda ukuphila ngendlela elula nje…
Ukunakekela izingane sikhathi sinye nabadala ungalindele
Kuvamisa ukuba nezigaba zempilo ekukhuleni kwethu, siphakathi nezingcindezi zezidingo zobuzali, sizithole ukuthi nabazali bethu sebesekukhuleni okudinga unakekelo lwethu. Yisimo leso okungelula neze ukubhekana naso, Kodwa khona simile.
Ukubuka ngeso le-bhayibheli ukungena komkhrestu kwi – fine arts
Ngokokubuka kwebhayibheli ikhona indawo evumelanayo ne-Arts kulona, kumbe yintshisekelo nje yabantu bezomhlaba ? Singabona kanjani i-art enhle nembi? Indodakazi yethu ,ingumfundi we-art e university ,manje sinokukhathazekela ukuthi imosha nje amandla nesikhathi sayo.Ikakhulukazi sikhathazeke kakhulu ngengxenye yezokuziphatha kulokhu ekwenzayo-iclass lakhe elingokudweba izithombe zasekuphileni limdinga adwebe abantu abanqunu benotho abalwenzayo! Ninomuzwa onjani…
Ukuya emcimbini womndeni one-couple ebulili-bunye
Siye yini emcimbini womndeni lakhona ne –couple eyizinkonkoni izobe ikhona? Udadewabo womnyeni wami ushade nenye intokazi .Lezintokazi ezinhle siyazithanda zombili kodwa asivumelani nempilo eziyiphilayo.Kunomcimbi omkhulu ekupheleni konyaka ,manje umnyeni ufuna siye nathi.Nami ngiyafuna ukuya ,kodwa sinezingane ezintathu ezisencane ,futhi angazi kuzozithinta kanjani lokhu .Ngenze njani?
Ukulawula ukudinwa kuma-teenager
Ngingamsiza kanjani undodana wami oseyi –adoloscent ukuba abhekane nokudinwa kwakhe? Kulula ukuphawula ukuthi uthukuthele kakhulu ngokuthizeni,kodwa nginomuzwa oqinile wokuthi ,uyayivalela ayicindezele imizwa yakhe yenhliziyo.Ngizamile ngebengingakwenza,ngehluleka ukumenza akhulume ngayo.Ngenze njani?