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Ukusiza intombazane eyi-teen ibe ngowesifazane II
Yikuphi engingakwenza nginomnyeni wami ukukhulisa ingane yethu yentombazane ibe ngowesifazane uNkulunkulu afuna ibe nguyena? Kulomphakathi ogwegwile ngubulili ,sihlale njalo sikhathazekile ukuba ibugcine ubufazane bayo sikhathi sinye ibe ikhula ibe ngoqinile nomuntu omdala onelisekile .Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?
Ukusiza intombazane eyi-teen ibe ngowesifazane I
Yikuphi engingakwenza nginomnyeni wami ukukhulisa ingane yethu yentombazane ibe ngowesifazane uNkulunkulu afuna ibe nguyena? Kulomphakathi ogwegwile ngubulili ,sihlale njalo sikhathazekile ukuba abugcine ubufazane bakhe sikhathi sinye ebe ekhula abe ngoqinile nomuntu omdala onelisekile .Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?
Ukuxoxa ngokudideka kobulili nentsha
Ngingenza kanjani mina nomnyeni wami ukusondela kundodana nondodakazi bethu abasebasha njengokuba bebhekene nezimo zokudideka kobulili e -high school yabo? Ungeke ukukholwe ukuthi udaba olunje seluqhumbukile lwavela ekukhanyeni ngonyaka odlule .Omunye okulona ngomunye ongumngane omkhulu wendodakazi yami ,okuyimanje oziphathisa okomfana nofuna ukuphathwa kanjalo.Izingane zami zizama ukungayinaki yonke lendaba uma ubuka ukude,kodwa…
Ingane engafuni uMawayo oyi-single-mother angene othandweni olusha
Njengowesifazane odivoziwe ,ngenze njani ngengane yami eyala kwasani ewubungani nanoma ubani omunye omusha empilweni yami ,ngisho nobudlelwane bothando obuqalayo nowesilisa ? Indodana yami ayifuni sanhlobo ukuthi ngibe ngowayo nabanye abantu.Ngingamchazela kanjani ngalesikhala esiba sebudaleni sowesifazane ukuba abe naye owesilisa empilweni yakhe? Wayengafuni noma ambone owesilisa phambili okwase kukhomba sizoshada impela…
Isikole esiyi-bording ezinganeni zezisebenzi zeNkosi
Uthini umbono wenu nge bording school ezinganeni? Ngiye ngibone sengathi iyalimaza ngokwemindeni. Kodwa nje nje mina nomnyeni wami sisanda kuthola ubizo lokuyosebenzela iNkosi phesheya kwezilwandle ,okubukeka kuyilona luhlelo kuphela oluphambi kwethu yilo lolu.Anginasiqiniseko lokhu kuhle yini ezinganeni nasemndenini wethu,kodwa futhi asifuni futhi ukudela ubizo lwethu lokuhambisa ivangeli.Lukhona ululeko la?
Izingane ezingabazayo ngoNkulunkulu
Singayisiza kanjani ingane yethu encane esangqubuzana nokholo lwayo? Emkhulekweni wakusihlwa izolo undodana wami omncane uvume ngezinyembezi unenkinga ekukholweni nguNkulunkulu .Lesisimo ngisixoxe kanjani naye?
Ukubhekana nokugeleza kwemiqhafazo yezocansi entsheni
Lokhona utho mina nomnyeni wami esingalwenza ukwehlisa ukukhungatheka nge -teenager yethu ebhekane nakho ngenxa yokuzigaxa kwayo kwi –sexting? Impilo yakhe neyomndeni wethu yaphenduka yabheka phansi ngamhla kuqhumbuka izithombe zayo inqunu zijikeleziswa esikoleni sayo electronically.Njengokuba nawe ungazicabangela ubuhlungu benhliziyo busankentenketha kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho isibhekene necala lobugebengu . Lukhona usizo eninalo ngathi?
Ukuqhumbuza ezomshado kwi-social media
Kukhona okuyiphutha uma ngixoxa nabangani bami ku facebook uma ngifuna ukuthimula umkhuhlane ohlasele umshado wami? Kwesinye isikhathi ngiye ngikhungatheke ,ngiphatheke kabi ngowakwami ,bese kuthi kulezokhathi ngizizwe sengathi ngingakhuluma nomuntu onomuzwa ngami nozoqonda . Nicabanga ngakube yindlela enempilo le ukubhekana nalemizwa yenhliziyo?
Ukuqonda i-sexting yentsha
Njengomzali we-teen ngakube I –sexting yinto okumele ngikhathazeke ngayo ? Sengizwe kaningi ngalokhu ezindabeni, kodwa angikaze ngicabange ukuthi ingane yami ingaqoleka yilesilingo.Asikaze sikhulume ngakho ngoba angisheshi kweze technology,futhi angazi ngqo kubandakanyi ini.Ngale kokuthi ,uyingane enhle.Nicabanga ngimelwe ukusimungunya lesihloko naye?
Izimpawu zenhlese embi emshadweni nge-social media
Ngingabona kanjani uma kungukuthi ukuzibandakanya kwami kwi social media ,facebook,twitter nokunye .- kuyincuphe emshadweni wami ? Angikacabangi yisona simo njengamanje,kodwa angifuni futhi ukuqhamuka sengithuswa yi -surprise. Ninawo amazwi enhlakanipho eningangipha wona?
Onomgudu wokuzitshela
Umuntu ozitshelayo ozazisayo onjani ngempela?
Ukuvuselela umshado wenu senizihlalele nodwa
Manje njengokuba izingane zethu sezihambile yini esingayenza ukuvuselela ubudlelwane bethu?
Owesifazane wayengenziwa kanJuni ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu oziveza engowesilisa
Kungaba kanjani kwabesilisa nabesifazane benziwe ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu libe iBhayibheli limbeka ngokobulili besilisa?
Ukuvangela isizukulwane se-technology
Yiyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuhambisa ivangeli esizukulwaneni sesimanje?
Ungavikela kanJuni ukunga spoil ingane yakho
Singenza kanjani ukuthi mina nomnyeni wami singayitotosi kweqe intombazanyana yethu enhle sadoli?
Osekuthombeni ucabanga ukuthi abamhloniphi abazali bakhe
Kumele i-adoloscent iphendule kanjani uma abazali bayo behlale becabanga ukuthi kukhona ebaleka nakho? Sengenele abazali bami ! Angiyona ingane embi ,kodwa abanginiki indawo yami sanhlobo.Angikwazi ukwenza utho kumbe ngiye endaweni ethile ngaphandle kokuphekisiswa ngemibuzo.Ngingawamela kanjani amalungelo ami nenkululeko yami ngaphandle kokuba ngiphume ekhaya?
Ukwenza izikhathi zokudla zomndeni ezithokozelekayo
Njengowesilisa nicabanga ukuthi kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni ngoba nakhu njalo ngiye ngixolele imvamisa futhi ngithokozele izinto zabesifazane ? Yilokhu ngaba njena ngisengumfana omncane ,anginaso isiqiniseko ngithini ngalokhu.
Ukukhonza izinto zabesifazane kunye nokuzazi ukuba ngowesilisa
Njengowesilisa nicabanga ukuthi kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni ngoba nakhu njalo ngiye ngixolele imvamisa futhi ngithokozele izinto zabesifazane ? Yilokhu ngaba njena ngisengumfana omncane ,anginaso isiqiniseko ngithini ngalokhu.
Ukukhulisa ukuzethemba ezinganeni
Yiziphi ezinye izinto engingazenza ukudala ukuzethemba ezinganeni zami ? Angifuni zikhule zicabanga ukuthi umhlaba umi ngazo ,kodwa futhi ngifuna ukuzifaka umqondo wokuzihlonipha kunye nezinkambiso zabo ezinhle njengabantu.Ngingakwenza kanjani lokho?
Ubuzali ngokubambisana nokungabambisaneki naye owake waganana naye
Ngibhekana kanjani ngokunqubuzana komqondo ngendlela akhulisa ngayo engangimganile? Isinqumo sesahlukaniso sethu ,sasithi siyoba neqhaza elilinganayo ebuzalini.Lokho kwakuzwakala kahle ephepheni kodwa ekwenzekeni kuyinhlekelele.Ngingumuntu okholelwa ebuqothweni nasekuqondiseni.Kodwa ngeshwa konke lokho kuyashabala uma nje izingane zami zike zaya kuyena,ongenandaba ngemithetho nezinqubo.Ngenze njani?