Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ubudlelwano obuguqukayo kwi-teen
Ngesikhathi ingane yakho ingena eminyakeni yobu-teenager, kunokwenzeka sewuqaphelile kunoguquko olukhona ngesondele kubona. Lakhona owake waba yindawo ephephile neyisifuba sengane yakho, usungakubona ukuthi sewugudluziwe, kwasekuba ngabangani bengane yakho asebethathe indawo empilweni yayo.
Ukunakekela izingane sikhathi sinye nabadala ungalindele
Kuvamisa ukuba nezigaba zempilo ekukhuleni kwethu, siphakathi nezingcindezi zezidingo zobuzali, sizithole ukuthi nabazali bethu sebesekukhuleni okudinga unakekelo lwethu. Yisimo leso okungelula neze ukubhekana naso, Kodwa khona simile.
Ukuya emcimbini womndeni wabashadile ababulili-bunye
Njengabazali abangaMakhrestu sifuna ukuhlala siqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zethu ziyazazi izinsika zokuphila uKhrestu asifundise ukuphila ngazo. Nokho sidinga futhi ukuzenza ziqonde umhlaba lo owele esonweni, esiphila kuwona.
Ukungena emshadweni usesikhungweni semfundo ephakeme
Imishado ezweni lakithi iyehla ngamazinga asheshayo, bangu 30% kuphela abasesigabeni sokushada abashadile. Ngakho uma sizwa abasha bethi balungisela ukungena emshadweni kuyasijabulisa lokho kakhulu, nokho ,ngakube kungubuhlakani yini ukushada ngesikhathi usese university?
Ukunamathela ngenhliziyo komunye oseceleni kanye nokuholela kwi-sahlukaniso
Ziningi izinhla eziholela ekwakheni ukuthembana emshadweni, futhi okuthi uma abashadene bezibambe kahle, nakanjani kuzoba nokuqina kokukhula kobudlelwane. Uma ngencaphephe kube ngukuthi uwakwakho usenamathele komunye ngenhliziyo, kulapho kanye ozozwa kwehla ngokushesha izinga lokwethembana phakathi kwenu.
Ukulawula inzalo nokubuka okungokufa
Isihloko sokulawula inzalo sesibe ngesinempikiswano ndlelaningi kuleminyaka. Baningi abaphikisana naso ngoba bethi sitshala isiko elingokufa.
Ongumkhrestu ongena othandweni nongakholwa
AmaKhrestu amaningi anokuzethemba kokuthi noma angangena othandweni nongakholwayo ayokwazi ukumguqula abe nguMKhrestu mase sebesejokeni linye lomshado.
Ingane enomoya ongemuhle
Uma ingane inokuziphatha okunganamisi futhi ibuka yonke into empilweni iyimbi, ingamnandi iyimfithimfithi, lokho kungaluphawu lokuthile oku serious kakhulu, kodwa kusenokwenzeka futhi ukuthi uguquko lokuziphatha lusekuhlelekeni.
Izimpawu zobungozi be-social media kwabashadile
Ngakube unabo ubungani kwezokuxhumana nabantu bobunye ubulili?Uxhumana nalaba bantu ngaphezu kokuxhumana nowakwakho? Yimibuzo esemqoka ukuzibuza yona uma uthemba ukuvikela umshado wakho ekuqhekezekeni.
Ubuzali emva kwesahlukaniso
Esigabeni sesahlukaniso, ubuzali buba ngobunzima, lakhona nezingane zibhekene nokuba ngubhandemtshelekwane; ngelinye ilanga zikumama ngelinye zikubaba. Kwezomndeni namhlanje sethembe ukukulethela izinkombandlela eziphilile ukuthi ungabugcina kanjani ubudlelwane obunempilo nemingcele emva kwesahlukaniso ,ukuze izingane zinonophale ngawe.
Ukulekelela uwakwakho akwazi ukuphatha kahle ezezimali
Uma sihlaziya abashadile kuye kubukeke ukuthi udaba lwezimali luyinkinga ephezulu emshadweni. Kulesimo esinzima somnotho miningi imindeni eqhukuza kanzima ukuxosha ikati eziko. Ukuze kuphilwe kahle kubiza ukuba I –couple ibe mqomndomunye ekwenzeni I budget nokusebenza kwemali . Kungaba lukhuni satshe uma omunye kwi-couple engasiboni isimo umndeni okuso ngokwezimali.
Ukulekelela uwakwakho akwazi ukuphatha kahle ezezimali
Uma sihlaziya ama-couple ashadile kuye kubukeke ukuthi udaba lwezimali luyinkinga ephezulu emshadweni. Kulesimo esinzima somnotho miningi imindeni eqhukuza kanzima ukuxosha ikati eziko. Ukuze kuphilwe kahle kubiza ukuba laba abashadile babe mqomndomunye ekwenzeni I-budget nokusebenziswa kwemali. Kungaba lukhuni satshe uma omunye kwi-couple engasiboni isimo umndeni okuso ngokwezimali.
Ongumkhwenyana nobaba onomakhwepheni obulili bunye naye
Ukuqhumisa izindaba ezinganeni zakho zokuthi uwakwakho usenekhwapha noma uyashendeza, ngumthwalo ongelula neze loyo nakunoma imuphi umzali.Bese kuthi uma kungukuthi kanti lobushwampeshwampe akubona uwakwakho bungobulili obubodwa nobakhe ivese ingazekeki ke leyo.
Ingane engafuni uMawayo oyi-single mother angene othandweni olusha
Akulula ukungena othandweni olusha emva kokudivoswa uma uyi-single mother. Uma ingane yakho kade iqhelile kumzali, bese ingathi ingaseduze bese yaziswa ngophila nabo engabazi, kungebe lula kuyo ukuzoqala leyompilo. Umuntu engenza kanjani ukuthi izingane zibe sisemweni esihle ngenkathi engena ebudlelwaneni obusha?
Izingane ezingabazayo ngoNkulunkulu
Uma ungumzali onguMKhrestu othandazela izingane zakhe, ucela uNkulunkulu ukuba azembule kuzona abe ngophilayo, angicabangi uwedwa kulowomsebenzi. Kungumthandazo osezindebeni zamakholwa amaningi angabazali. Wonke umzali onguMKhrestu ufuna ukunethezeka ekwazini ukuthi ingane yakhe ishisekela uNkulunkulu futhi imkholwa ngenhliziyo yayo yonke ebuNkulunkulunkulwini baKhe. Ukukhuthazeka kuziletha ngesikhathi ingane yakho izibuza ngokholo nobukhona bukaNkulunkulu. Umuntu wenzenjani…
Ukuqhumbuza ezomshado kwezokuxhumana (social media)
Uma izinkinga ziqhumbuka emshadweni wakho uya kubani? Abashadile abaningi banenkinga yokungaxoxi ngokunganeliseki emishadweni yawo. Kungaba nzima ukuba nalezongxoxo ubuso nobuso nowakwakho, yingakho abanye abantu baye bethi ukuphefumula kubangani ekuveleni kwethuba yindlela yokuxosha intuthu. Kwabanye lolohlobo lwabangani lukwezokuxhumana, ngakho ukuphefumula kwenzeka khona lapho. Kodwa ngeshwa loukuthi i-social media yibhodwe lomhlaba wonke…
Izimpawu zenhlese embi emshadweni nge-social media
I-social media isihluzwe njengenye yengxovane esibe nenhlese embi emshadweni yokudala izingxabano ngisho nezehlukaniso imbala. Kulolulwazi oselushiwo, kungaba ngubuhlakani ukuzipha isikhathi sicwaninge kahle nesixhumana nabo kuma-social media ukuze sivikele imishado yethu. Sijula kancane ngalendaba khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ukuvuselela umshado wenu senizihlalele nodwa
Abashadile abaningi bawela kunoxhaka wokufaka umdlandla wawo ezinganeni, kangangokuthi uma sezihamba, basala umama nobaba sekuheleza umoya emshadweni wabo. Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni sikhuluma ngemininingwane yongakulindela uma izingane zakho zingasekho.
Ukuvangela isizukulwane se-technology
Siye sikhulume ngesizukulwane sanamhlanje nokuthi impilo isibe ngenzima kanjani kulabo abazalwe manje esikhathini se-simanje. Kushukumbisa ubuzali, ukukhetha izifundo, inkambiso yokuxhumana nabanye abantu nokuningi.Kodwa sona lesizukulwane sithinteke kanjani ekubukeni kwaso uNkulunkulu neBandla? Amabandla amaningi azibuza lemibuzo futhi afuna izimpendulo ukuthi engenza kanjani ukufinyelela kangcono kulesizukulwane ngevangeli.
Osekuthombeni ucabanga ukuthi abamhloniphi abazali bakhe
uyi-teenager ezwa sengathi ibanjwe wulawulo lwabazali ,ngakho hlala nathi. Kusenokwenzeka ungayithandi imibono yabo kunye nezinqubo zokukuholela endleleni enhle okusengabukeka kuyinto efile kuwena, kodwa amathuba amakhulu aveza ukuthi balangazelela okuhle kuwena.