Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukubuyisa amandla emumva kothando olusithe olukuphoxile
Ukudweshuleka kobudlelwane kuhlala kungelula, kuhlala kunemizwa yokuthi ngikhohlisiwe la, nokushoshozela kwenhliziyo okudinga yelashwe, indaba isekutheni umuntu uqhubeka kanjani nempilo ezwe inkululeko kwikusasa.
Abazali abesaba kunokwenzeka ingane yabo iyisisulu sokuxhashazwa kwezokuxhumana
Ezweni lezobuchwepheshe esesiphila kulo, lakhona nezingane zinezinto ezizixhumanisa nomhlaba we-internet, kugcina sekuyinsakavukela ukuncokofulwa kwabo. Njengomzali ungazithola usunomntwana osobishini lwalenkinga.
Ukuhuheka phakathi kwabangani abashadile
Uma indoda eshadile ikhulelwa yimizwa ngonkosikazi womngani wayo, iyazi ukuthi lokho kuzibandakanya kungayicala elikhulu.Kodwa manje iyiphi inkinga elele la. Yikuphi futhi okungenziwa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ukubhidlika komshado akuzoba yisiphetho salengwadla.
Iyiphi indlela yokubhekana nomama osebenzayo ozizwa enecala
Kulezinsuku kunesisho esivelele esithi ‘umama ozibambe ngamazinyo’ okwazi ukudibanisa umsebenzi, umndeni, abangani, imisebenzi yebandla nokuningi sikhathi sinye.Uma uzimatanisa nalesisimo, vese unamathele ngoba sizokhuluma ngokungawubungozi bokuphila lempilo, kanjalo nezisombululo.
Ozoba ngumkhwenyana kamama osenengane, akayiqondi impilo yengane
Ukungena ebudlelwaneni bomshado la osekunezingane khona kungaba yinselelo kubazali. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizoxoxa ubumqoka bokuphokophela ukusebenza kanzima ubudlelwane obusha obubandakanya nezingane.
Ukungabi Nasiqinesekiso Ukuvuma Kuwakwakho Ukuthi Kade Unomakhwapheni
Ukuthandana nomunye umuntu usemshadweni kungadala inhlekelele emshadweni, kodwa okwedlulele ukufihla iqiniso okungaletha imiphumela enqala empilweni. Namhlanje la ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizoxoxa kabanzi ngokuhlambuluka ngokuba nomakhwapheni.
Uwakwakho Uthola Izithombe Ezimhuha Ngocansi
Kulomhlaba wanamhlanje lakonke seku-digital,nendidabuchopho yobudlabuladlwedlwe obukwi social media,kulula ukubona ukuhuhwa ngezocansi qede ukitazeke ugcine usuyimbuzi yentambo nje. Ngenxa yokuthi ayazani kwenza umuntu acabange akukho bungozi ekuhuhaneni online, nokho yiyo kanye lempilo eholela ophathe imishado. Sifuna ukuqwashisa abaganene ngalobungozi, silethe iziluleko eziphusile ekutheni ungavikela kanjani umshado wakho.
Ukukhuleka Ndawonye Njengomnden
Imindeni eminingi ekholwayo ayikaze iziphe isikhathi ukuthandaza ndawonye njalonjalo, okwenza ingazi ngokunamathelana okumangazayo okudalwa yilemthandazo elula nje.Yebo ikhona imindeni engafakaza ngesimanga sokwakheka kokholo nobunye obenzeke ngesikhathi befuna Inkosi bewumndeni. Sisemqoka kangakanani isikhathi sokukhuleka ndawonye niwumndeni? Sizophendula lombuzo khona la ohlwelweni Ezomndeni.
Igunya Lobuzali Enganeni Esikhulile
Kuba noguquko lwegunya ekufikeni kwengane ebudaleni .Kumzali lolosuku luvese luzume ,masisha usebona indodana noma indodakazi yakhe enhle isizimele. Sithanda ukuxoxisisa ngalokhu kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni.
Ukusiza Umfana Abe Yindoda
Inhloso ekugcineni ukukhulisa abafana ,ukubaqeqesha nokubakhuthaza babe ngamadoda ahlonishwayo naqotho.Kuwumsebenzi oyinzuzo ukutshala kuwo,La ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizoletha izinkomba namasu.
Ukukipita Nesoka Elihlukumezayo
Sesizwe kaningi ngezindaba lakhona umama ezibona eboshelwe ebudlelwaneni obungachachambile ngenxa yokuthi ubona ukwehlukana kungawububi enganeni.Sifuna ukubuka udaba olunjalo, macala onke.
Ingane Esebenzisa Amagama Anenhlamba
Ingane esebenzisa amagama anenhlamba kungenzeka iveza impilo yabantu abayizungezile,kunokwenzeka futhi kube esinye isizathu. La ohlelweni Ezomndeni namuhla sizoxoxa ngokuthi yini eqhuba inhlamba olimini lwengane ,hlala ulalele.
Ukukinatelwa Yizidakamizwa Sibuke Noluleko Lwezomshado
Umshado la khona oyedwa ekinatelwe zidakamizwa ungumqansa kakhulu ,nokho kusuke kungachazi kumele kube yisiphetho sawo.
Ukunyathelwa Yisifo Sofuzo Nomshado
Ungathini usuthenjisiwe umshado bese uthola ukuthi unesimo sezempilo esingaphazamisa izingane uma nizithola?
Izindlela Zokubhekana Nobudlelwano Obu Online
Ezinsukwini esikuzona zobuchwepheshe sebuyanda ubudlelwano obu online kwintsha yethu, sibone kusemqoka ukucobelelana amasu okubhekana nohlobo lobudlelwano obunjalo.
Ingane Esikhulile Izizwa Isaphathswe Okwengane
Kungayinto enzima kumama ukukhulula abantwana bakhe nxa sebefike ezingeni lokukhula baziqalele impilo yabo,sithini ke uma uyingane leyo umama angavumi ukuyikhulula esandleni sakhe? Ungamtshela kanjani ukuthi ususezingeni lokuzibhekanela nempilo ,kodwa usho ngenhlonipho? Sikholwa singasiza kulemosa.
Ukukhuthaza Imikhuba Enempilo Ekhaya
Wonke umzali ufuna ukwazi ukuthi wenza konke kahle ekuqinisekiseni umndeni ophilile nosimeme kwimpilo yonkana.Kakusiwo –ke umsebenzi olula ,nokho sizoke sixoxe ngezindlela eziningi umndeni ongazigcina unempilo usimeme.
Ukuqhelelana Ngezinhliziyo Emshadweni
Njengoba impilo yabashadile imatasa ngaphezu kokwenza kulezinsuku,iningi besebenza bobabili,nendathane yezinto ezibadingayo nezigcwalisa uhlelo lwempilo, kulula ukuqonda ukuthi ukuqhelelana ngezinhliziyo kungapulukutshela kungene emshadweni. Abashadile bangavuthela kanjani lelolangabi uma kuwukuthi selipheshulwe zivunguvungu zempilo?
Ukubhekana Nezimo Eziphathekayo Zowakwakho
Esikhathini sobuhlungu bokushiwa uwakwakho ,kungawumqansa ukubhekana nezidingo zempilo ngaphezu kokuba usabhekene nobuhlungu nokushoshozela kokulahlekelwa ,nokho ngeshwa isisho esizwakala singenasihe esithi:’impilo iyaqhubeka’ siliqiniso kolunye uhla ngoba kunezinto ezisakubhekile ukuziqhuba nakuba usekulileni, sibala : izinto ezisadinga izinqumo ngezezimali.
Ukubhekana Nowakwakho Osewadlula Ngokuba Late
Ukufika ‘ngesikhathi’ kungaba yinto oyiqikelelayo futhi eseqhulwini kuwe,kodwa kwabanye kube yinto engathi shu leyo. Sizokhuluma ngalengudlungudlu ephakathi kwabaganene.