Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Odivose enengane, ufuna ukubuyisa umshado
Ngingaqhubeka nomcabango wokubuyela emshadweni wami ngenxa yengane? Sobabili singaMakhrestu, ngeshwa sigcine nje sesihlukanisa. Emasontweni ambalwa edlule ngizizwa nginomzwangedwa ngalokhukwehlukwana esimweni senganyana yethu. Nicabanga ngenze kuphi ?
Inkambiso Yokusebenzisa i-Cell phone ezinganeni
‘izingane zingavunyelwa ukuba nama smart phone nokunye okuwubuchofo? Omdala useyashayela, ngakho besemgwaqeni. Uwakwami yena ucabanga bayawadinga amaphone ukuze bakwazi ukuxhumana nathi. Nikubona kuwumqondo omuhle lokho?’
Osekuse emehlweni kuye ngophuzo ufuna ubudlelwane bubuye nabantabakhe
Umndeni osuhlupheke wukuqhotshozelwa yimithelela yokucwila kwelunga ezinkambeni, izidakamizwa, ucansi noma yiluphi olunye uhlobo olunethonya lokungashiyeki, imvamisa ugcina ukuthwala kanzima kwikusasa lawo uma kungesikho kwempiloyonke. SingaMaKhrestu ,siyakholwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu angakwelapha bonke ubuthakathaka bethu nobudlelwane obuphukile,ngokuba ungumbuyiseli wemiphefumulo yethu [Ihubo 23].
Izinkinga zobudlelwano ekubeni ngumzali wengane ezalwa nguwakwakho
Imindeni exubile, iyimndeni esiminingi kulezinsuku. ukuhlangana kwemindeni emibili izoba mndenimunye, ngokwemvelo inezinselelo ezingadinga ukunqotshwa. Kungancika emlandwini wobudlelwane, isibalo somndeni ozongena, neminyaka, nezinga lezingane, ezibandakanyekayo, lomndeni oxubile ungaba ngongathatha izindlela ezehlukene. Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje, sizobuka isimo lakhona indodakazi noyise ongayizali [stepfather] benenkinga ngoxhumano lwabo.
Umzali owahlukanisa unovalo ngengane yakhe esikhulile engawuzwa kahle umshado
Umshado uyisakhiwo esingcwele esadalwa nguNkulunkulu, futhi kunokuningi okuwusizo nokuhle empilweni ekuzinikeleni emshadweni. Ngeshwa ngokunyuka kwezahlukaniso kuleminyaka ,umshado usumanembenembe kwabaningi. Kuyavama ukuba ingane evela kubazali abahlukanisa, ukuba ingabi nkamunkumu ngomshado.
Umfana ozothile nozwelayo
Kukhona yini okungamele kukukhathaze uma umfana ekhombisa ukuthanda ezobuciko kunezemidlalo, kumbe izinto ezimenza azizolele kunalezo ezimenza abe semdlandleni? Ukujwayeleka kwezimo zempilo kwenze ukuba sigcina sesibuka ngeso okungesilo kwelesakheko sengane. Sizosibhunga namuhla lesihloko ngokwezwi.
Ukuthola intando kaNkulunkulu
Kuyenzeka sizibuze ukuthi yikuphi uNkulunkulu afuna ukukwenza ngempilo yethu. Siyazi ufuna simphilele ,kodwa mase kuziwa kwimininingwane kwenza kube nzima nokuthatha igxathi elicacile.Namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizobuka kabanzi lesihloko, hlala ungasuki.
Umkhwenyana ojeqeza abanye besifazane
Uma unkosikazi enomuzwa wokuthi amehlo omkhwenyana wakhe ade ethi qala uma kuke kwathi shwi owesifazane othandekayo emehlweni akhe, enze njani lonkosikazi? Azithulele futhi athandaze, kungaphindi, kumbe alubeke loludaba kuye phambi kokuba ludlange? Sithanda ukuvuna lowomqondo wesibili bese siletha imininingwane ethe xaxa, khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ukubuka ukukipita nezimo zakho nomshado
Sekuvamile ukuba abantu bahlale ndawonye phambi komshado ,hle hle izinkomba ezweni lakithi zikhomba bebancane abakhetha ukushada.Iso lokubuka umshado selingxenye ,yiziphi izinkuthazo zomshado nokuzuzwa kuwo ,nokuthi kungani ababili kumele bawulangazelele? Sizokhuluma kabanzi ngalokho la ohlelweni Ezomndeni .
Unkosikazi wami uyahlukumezana ngokwenyama
Sivamise ukuzithola sikhuluma ngokuhlukunyuzwa la khona umama usuke eyisisulu, kodwa namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizonceda ubaba obhekene nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba ngunkosikazi wakhe, bese siletha izinyathelo ezisithinta sonke kungakhathalekile ukuthi uhloboni luni lohlukumezo nokuthi ngubani umenzi walo.
Ukuhushula nezempilo zikaMama
Izibalo zokuhushula izisu okwenzeka ezweni lakithi zisezingeni eliphezulu elethusayo futhi kwazona ezibhaliwe azibandakanyi lezo zokuhushula okungagunyaziwe nguhulumeni okwenzeka emahhontshi.Kumbalwa kakhulu lakhona okusuke kuwuhlobo lokuba umama akhethe phakathi kwezempilo zakhe nempilo yomntwana. Zizwele khona la.
Uku ‘adopter’ ingane ehlukumezekile
Uku–adopter yinto enhle kakhulu eseduze nenhliziyo kaNkulunkulu. Wonke umzalwane wafakwa emndenini wakhe, njengokusho kwezwi kwabaseRoma 8,ukuthi si-adopthiwe saba ngamadodana namadodakazi. Uma umndeni ucabanga uku-adopter, kuningi okufikayo, amalungiselelo nokuhlela okuningi okudinga ukwenziwa kuqala. Kwenziwa njani uma kuwukuthi umntwana ozofakwa emndenini useke wabhekana nokuhlukumezeka phambilini? Lezozingane zidinga ngempela ikhaya elifudumele nelinothando. Zizwele…
Ukungethembeki - Ukwehlukanisa phakathi kokuthethelela nokubuyisana
Uma umuntu ethethelela umuntu akuchazi ukuthi usebuyisene naye.
Umkhwenyana akafuni ukuyosebenza
Impilo yekhaya ingamuncu uma uwakwakho engafune kubamba liqhaza ngokwezimali kumbe nangokunye nje. Umuntu wenzenjani ke ezimweni ezinjalo?
Ukubuka ezezimali kwabasanda kushada
Uma kuziwa kwezezimali, abashadile kumele babe mqondo munye ukuze bavimbe obekungalindelwa ngomunye kanjalo nokuphoxeka ebudlelwaneni babo. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizokhuluma ngeso lokubuka ezezimali kwabasanda kushada, nokho umgomo wona ungena kuyo yonke imishado.
Ukholo nokuzibulala kwabasha nabasafika ebudaleni
Uma umuntu omusha enokholo oluqinile ,kwenza sikholwe ukuba abanakubalwa ekubhekaneni nezindaba zengcindezi nemicabango yokuzibulala. Nokho, lokho kungaba nombuzo phakathi ngoba phela uluntu luwile.
Ukukhuthaza Ingxoxo niwumndeni
Ngakube sewuke waqaphela izinga lezingxoxo zomndeni elenzeka kwakho. Singakanani isikhathi umndeni wakho ositholayo ukuxoxa ubuso nobuso kulempilo ematasa?
Unkosikazi unongakuqondi ngezocansi ngomkhwenyana wakhe
Kuhle sibalule ukuthi abashadile banomehluko ngokwezidingo zabo uma besenkonzweni yasekamerweni. Siye sizwe kumakhosikazi angenalo isasasa elisezingeni labakhwenyana babo, lokho okungadala ukukhungatheka emshadweni
Kungani sinikela Izizathu ezinhle zobuKhrestu zokupha
Sewake wamangazwa ukuzibuza ukuthi lithini kahle hle ibhayibheli ngokunikela?
Ingane ephindaphinda amagama ahlabayo ashiwo nguwakwakho
Esimweni sesahlakaniso ,kuye kude kuba nogingqigoqo wochuku kulaba ababeshadene. Okungaba nemizwa eminingi emibi ngowakwakho futhi ngeshwa okungabandakanya izingane ,zingagcina ziphakathi nendawo ziyiyoyo,zihambise imiyalezo engasizi macala onke.