Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukuhlakulela ubundawonye bomndeni
Uthi bewazi nje ukuthi izingane zithola injabulo enkulu ngisho ezintweni ezincane, nanjengokuba zijabulela nezinkulu futhi? Ngakho uma ukuqondile ukuhlakulela ubundawonye nezingane zakho, izinto ezifana nokudla isidlo sasekuseni nindawonye, imidlalo ukuziculela amaculo asamdlalwana nisemotweni noma nizihlalele, lokho kusengaphenduka kube yinto izingane zakho ezingasoze zayikhohlwa ekukhuleni kwazo.
Ngakube ngicwile ezinkambeni?
Kugcine sekukholakala ukuthi ukuze ube ngumcwili ophuzweni umelwe ukushona ngamadevu ophuzweni usuku nosuku. Kodwa lokho akusilo iqiniso neze. Kahle hle kuyenzeka ube ngocwile ezinkambani ngisho kwawena ungaziboni.
Ingcindezi nokuzibulala: Izimpawu nezexwayisayo
Uma kukhona omaziyo oseduze nawe onengcindezi, nakanjani umelwe ukulalela loluhlelo Ezomndeni lakhona namhlanje sizobe sixoxa ngamaphuzu ambeka engozini kunye nezimpawu ezexwayisayo ngengcindezi nokuzibulala.Ungabe usaya ndawo.
Ingane enekhanda eliqinile iveza umoya wokukulumana
Ukuqondisa imigilingwanyana yengane esencane kuwumqansa ngempela,singasayiphathi eyengane ebukeka ingezwa mshini. Abazali abaningi babhekana nobunzima ngezingane zabo ezincane, ngesikhathi zisafunda ukuphila nabantu futhi zibuke impilo ngokwazo ekuphaphameni kwengqondo.Okusifikela emqondweni njengamanje yingane eqhubeka iluma abantu okusuke kuluphawu lokuzilawula.Akekho umzali othokozela ukubona ingane yakhe iluma enye ingane noma umuntu kungekho cala, kodwa lokhu…
I-adoption nokwelapha i-Sensory Processing Disorder
Uma kungukuthi awukaze uzwe nge Sensory Processing Disorder ,kodwa umangele ngokuziphatha kwengane okungejwayelekile esesandleni sakho, ngakho lalelisisa. I-SPD ingachazwa ngokokuthi yisimo esiphathekayo sokungakwazi ukusebenzisa ukukhuluma okuze engqondweni ngokwemizwa, ukuze isebenze kahle kwimpilo yezinsuku zonke imvamisa lesisimo sidalwa wukwethuka okuhlasimulisayo eyabhekana nakho ingane isencane.
Ukugconana emndenini
Ngakube umndeni wakho ngomunye wemindeni ekhonze ukuncokola kuqhume uhleko? Ngakube uzithola wenza ihlaya ngamanye amalungu omndeni ze wonke umuntu ahleke? Ukugcona abanye kungenza umndeni unamathelane. Nokho, uma kwenziwe ngendlela engalungile, ukugconana kungaholela odweshwini olukhulu emndenini.
Ukusondela kolahlekelwe ngothandiweyo wakhe ngokuzibulala
Ukuzibulala kwentsha kuphezulu njengokuba izithola ithe shi kwi-negative thinking futhi izithole kujikelezo lwengcindezo nemizwa yokungabi nathemba.Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje siza nokuthi ungasondela kanjani kumhlobo onosizi olahlekelwe ngothandiweyo wakhe ngokuzibulala.
Abazali abankamunkamu nomakoti nondodana
Ukugcina ubudlelwano nezingane zakho esezikhulile, kunye neziganene nabo kuhlale kungelula. Namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngabazali osekunoqhekeko kundodana nomalokazana wabo futhi abangazi ukuthi lolufa bazolulungisa kanjani.
Izingane nobungani obuphilile
Uma ungumzali kuba nzima ukuba yisibukeli ngesikhathi ingane yakho ihlulwa ukukhetha kahle abangane.Impilo yokuphilisana nabantu enganeni yakho isemqoka ngoba umuntu ubunjwa wuhlobo lwabantu abamzungezile.
-DELETED- Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki-II
Phambilini ohlelweni Ezomndeni sasiphendula ukububula komlaleli wethu owayefuna usizo owayezizwa njengesehluleki nawaselahlekelwe yithemba empilweni yakhe. Ukukhala okunjalo kuyithinta ngokujulile inhliziyo yethu futhi siye sifune ukungenelela sisize ngokushesha. Namhlanje sizoletha izibiba ezinamava okwelapha lesisisimo.
Abazali bavimba ubudlelwano bogogo nezinganeni zabo
Uqhelelano emndenini ngeshwa lwenzeka zikhathi zonke, kwesinye isikhathi ngisho kungekho nento ephathekayo edala ukwehlukana. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizokhuluma ngokuthi ungawubuyisela kanjani umndeni osuhlukene.
Ukuhlolela inzalo ngesikhathi somethembiso
Inhliziyo yomuntu iceba indlela, kepha uJehova uyaqondisa izinyathelo zakhe.[Izaga 16 :9], Lesisaga asilona iqiniso na? Sisengaba nemicabango ukuthi sithanda ukuba impilo yethu ihambe kanjani,kodwa iNkosi yiyo ezoqondisa icebo lempilo yethu .Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizobuka ukuthi lokhu kunganomthelela kanjani kwabahlela ukushada
Ingane enezinkinga ezingokuziphatha e-pre-school
Okunye ukubhekana nokuziphatha kwengane yakho ekhaya, kwehluke kakhulu-ke uma sekunguthisha wase pre-school esekuthinta ekhalaza ngokuziphatha kwayo. Asinamandla ezimweni zesikole, nokho uhlobo lobuzali esibenza ekhaya nalo lungaba yimbangela yendlela yokuziphatha kwengane esikoleni nakwezinye izingxenye.
Osangena ebudaleni uzizwa engenathemba ngomshado
Ngakube ugcina unomuzwa wokuthi umshado yinto eseyadlulelwa yisikhathi, ngenxa yokuthi imishado eminingi iphetha ngezahlukaniso? Izinkomba zikhomba ukuthi ezweni lakithi kulabo asebesebudaleni bokushada, bangu 33% kuphela abashadile ,okuyisibalo esiphansi kakhulu emhlabeni wonke.
ukukhetha ozoshada naye
Ngokuzika kwemishado ezweni, kwenza abasha bazibuze kusemqoka yini ukushada.
Ukholo ukungabaza kuqhathaniswa nokungakholwa
Ukuphi umehluko phakathi ‘kongakholwa ‘ kunye nomuntu onombuzo othembekile ngoNkulunkulu ? Ngiyakholelwa eBhayibhelini ,futhi ngiye ngitshele nabahlobo nomndeni ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyazenza izimangaliso ngisho ukuvusa abafileyo .Nokho,uma sezishuba izinto ,ngikuthola kunzima ukuthemba iNkosi.nakuba ngibatshela abanye ukuthi bangethembela emseni waKhe ,nokho ngibhekana novalo nokwesaba uma kufika izimo ezingihaqayo ezinzima.Ngakube lokho kuchaza ukuthi…
Umshado nesenzo socansi emshadweni njengophawu lwakwamoya
Umshado nenkonzo ngakube yimifanekiso efanele ukuchaza ngobudlelwano bethu noNKULUNKULU ? Ngesikhathi ngifunda umbhalo obungomshado wobuKhrestu ngizithela enkulumweni ehlasimulayo .Umbhali uqale ngokuqhathanisa ubudlellwano boluntu nobeNKOSI kubantu .Bese aqhubeke athi kumele ‘sishade noNkulunkulu’ ,bese aze aphakamise ukuthi kulobubunye ,UKhrestu utshala ‘izimbewu zokomoya’ kithi ukuze ‘sizale okusha empilweni entsha’. Ngikuthole lokhu kuwulimi lwezocansi…
Indodakazi ayimhloniphi umkhwenyana wayo
Uma ungumama wendodakazi esishadile, nebala uyazi ukuthi izinga liyashintsha kakhulu. Lengane yakho esikhulile isiphumile esandleni sakho, kodwa manje isinomndeni wayo ozimele.
Ogogo nomkhulu bakhathazeke ngesimo sezempilo ekhaya labazukulu
Njengogogo nomkhulu kunganzima kwesinye isikhathi ukuba yisibukeli lakhona ubuzali sebusemahlombe engane yakho. Uye uzizwe sengathi ungenza kangcono kunayo ezinganeni zayo.
Ukuziphatha kabi ngocansi nokusondela ngokwenyama phambi komshado
Abantu abasha abaningi abengena othandweni bazithola kunzima ukuzigcina bemsulwa phambi komshado. Ibhayibheli lihlaba liqonde nje ngalesihloko, nakuba abanye bezama ukuliphikisa kumbe bathi sekwaphupha elikushoyo.