Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Ingxenye yesibili)
Ohlelweni lwethu ezomndeni olwedlule saqala inkulumo ngokuthi ubhekana kanjani nokuqhelelana emshadweni futhi sabuka ukuthi: ukuqinisekisa ukuthi yiyona ndlela efanele ngalesosikhathi, ukuba nohlelo nokuqinisekisa uyazazisa izingane ngokokuhambisana neminyaka yazo. Sifuna namhlanje ukukhuluma ngokuthi uzinakekela kanjani izingane ngokwemizwa yenhliziyo yazo esikhathini sokuqhelelana kanjalo nokuthi zinyathelo zini okumele uzithathe nisaqhelelene.
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Ingxenye yokuqala)
Baningi abashadile abaxakekile ebudlelwaneni babo, okugcina kubiza ukuthi ukuqhelelana noma isehlukaniso sibe yisiphetho, ukuqeda iminjunju. La ohlelweni ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngesihloko esinzima sokuthi kubhekwana kanjani nokuqhelelana emshadweni, lesihloko simahlandla mabili.
Ukuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese (Ingxenye yesibili)
Ohlelweni lwethu ezomndeni oluphambilini besithula isihloko sokuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye futhi sisiza umlaleli wethu ukuba aqonde ukuthi imizwa ayiqondile ukuveza ubuqobo bomuntu nokuthi nabo ubuqobo siqu ngokwamagama ananyekwa kubo ngabantu akumele amiswe kalula nje emphakathini jikelele.
Ukuhehwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese (Ingxenye yokuqala)
Miningi imicabango, imizwa nemibuzo ejikeleza emcabangweni womuntu uma ezithola ehuhwa ngubulili bunye. Abantu masisha bagxumela ekukubizeni ngamagama, kodwa empeleni lithini iqiniso nesiqu salendaba.
Ukuhlukana koMzali neNgane okwesikhashana
Ngakube kube lula yini kimi ukushiya ingane yami nomzanyane kumbe ngiyishiye enkulisa amahora ? Ngisengumzali omusha ,kangikazi noma kunempilo yini ukuhlukanisa ingane yami nami kube yisikhashana .Kuthini ukubona kwenu kulokhu?
Ukuhlola Izifo Zocansi Kongathembekile Emshadweni
Imithelela yomakhwapheni namashende ishiya kumanhlembethwane. Imiphumela yezenzo ezinjalo insonsotha kude le, bese kuthi lo olinyaziwe emshadweni unezizathu ezanele ukuba manqika ukuya phambili ngalomshado.
Ukululama Enhliziyweni Emva Kwesimo Esibuhlungu
Ukululama emva kwisiga esibuhlungu akuyona into elula neze,kuthatha isikhathi nokuzimisela.
Ukuzilungiselela Ikhaya Eligengqezayo
Uthi bewazi ukuthi kulabo abaneminyaka eko 65 nengaphezulu, izehlukaniso kubo zenyukile kusuka ngo-1990, izizathu zencike kakhulu ekugungquzeni ngabodwa emakhaya. Abazali ngaphakathi ezinhlizyweni bakhetha ukuba ndawonye kuze kube izingane ziyozisebenzela emva kwalokho bese beqala babone ukuthi umshado wabo usengxakini bagcine bephuma kuwo.
Izizathu ukulubekela Imfundo Ephakeme
Kungani kumele ngiye e University ? Indlela mina engibuka ngayo ,amakolishi awabumbi isizukulwane esilandelayo ukuba sibe abadala abanokhiqhizo nobuholi,lokho okungasizi mfundi ukufinyelela ezimpokophelweni zakhe .Kungani uzicwilise ezikweletini ngenxa nje yokuthi kunomuntu olindele ube neziqu ? Kungani uchithe iminyaka yakho emide usebenzela ucwezu lwephepha nje ologcina lukubeka ezingeni lokuhola okufanayo nongenalo?…
Umkhwenyana ozibuza ngakube abambe iqhaza lokuba ngumama
Akusiyo into oyibona nsukuzasa ubaba enza umsebenzi kamama, elungisela izingane ukuya esikoleni, elungisa ukudla, ewasha izitsha. kodwa ndlela thizeni ngesinye sezigaba obaba abazithola bekuso.
Abazali abakhathazekile ngentombazane ekhonze imidlalo yabafana
Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje sizonqumunga isihloko esixukuzana ingqondo, nkashana sisa siza umndeni uqonde kangcono isimo sokuthanda izinto zabafana kwentombazana nokudlala sabulili obuhlukile.
Umkhwenyana olulama okikanetelweni lwe-Porn ,akasemashushu ngenkonzo
Imishado eminingi, ikhinyabezwe lukinatelo lwezithombe zobunqunu [porn] futhi eminingi yayo iphetha kwizahlukaniso. Izizathu zalokhu ukuthi kumanhlembethwane ukulapheka futhi bese lo oganene naye aphelelwe lithemba lokubuyiseka kobudlelwane ngendlela.
OGogo noMkhulu abalekelela Omama nobaba abamatasa
Kulesikhathi esikuso sekujwayelekile ukuba ubaba nomama basebenze endaweni eqhelile nekhaya,sekuyinsakavukela ukuthi ubutasa kweqe sebube yingxenye yempilo ejwayelekile emindenini eminingi. Amagama athi: “ewu asikho isikhathi impilo imatasa” angamagama ajwayelekile. Okuthi uma abazali sebephila leyompilo kugcine ubuzali babo bebethwesa ugogo nomkhulu ngezingane zabo. Lokho kungaba lusizo olukhulu emndenini, nokho akungabi sesimweni lakhona…
Ukugudluza Ingcindezi Yokuqeqesha ingane isigcozi
Uma ungumzali wengane esisesikoleni uthi mawubuka emumva isazichamela ebusuku uthi huh! ekukhumbuleni lezonsuku usayifundisa isigcozi kanti uma kungukuthi eyakho njengamanje ikulesosigaba, usibuka njengentaba engenakunyukeka. Phela soze wabona ingane esifunda isikole igqoke amanabukeni ngoba yonke ingane isuke seyifundile ukuziyela endlini encane.
Ukuqondisa Izigwegwe Enganeni Engekho kunyathela kunye
sihloko sokuqondisa izigwegwe ezinganeni siyisihloko esishisayo kubazali futhi bazizwa bengekho emandleni okubhekana naso. Baningi abazali abangakwazi ukuthi uqondiso oluba nomphumela omuhle lubiza amava amakhulu nokulandelela, futhi uma kungekho ukuma okuqhubekayo ,kugcina izingane zingasenaso isiqinisekiso semingcele yazo
Imicabango Ngomama Abasebenzayo
Ninalo ukhuthazo ngomama abaqashwe ngaphandle kwekhaya ? Ngiyazi ukuthi iFocus On The Family izipha isikhathi ukugqugquzela omama abahlala ekhaya eqhazeni labo ,kodwa ngiyazibuza kazi ninalo na usizo kulabo bethu okubiza betshathe izikhwama njalo ekuseni beya emsebenzini ukuze izindleko zekhaya zifezeke.
Akathembekanga Umlisa Obukipite Naye
Ubudlelwano obuphetha ngenxa yokungathembeki buvama ukuba inkanankana uqobo, kepha uma kukhona nezingane lokho kwenza lesisimo sedlulele ngobunzima nokusambathekisana.
Ukugwema Ukuqondisa ingane kuze kweqe
Uma sekuziwa ekuqondiseni izgwegwe ingane kumele abazali baqonde ngokucacile, izindlela ezifanele nezinhloso zokuqondisa ingane.Ukuqondisa ingane kuwukuyifundisa, yingakho ukuqina kwesandla kweqe kungenazithelo, nanxa kungalula futhi ukuwela kunoxhaka lakhona ingane ingafuni ngabomu ukulalela.
Ukubhekana nesibhocobhoco sokungasebenzi
Uma kukhona into ecoba umoya womuntu-wukungasebenzi nomuzwa wokwazi ukuthi kawukwazi ukondla umndeni wakho. Nkashana indoda ilahlekelwa ngumsebenzi izizwa iphelelwe yisidima sayo.
Wenze njani ngamahora amade emsebenzini
Ukusungula ibalansi ngomndeni nomsebenzi kuyinto enzima. Uma sifaka wonke umqondo wethu emsebenzini yethu, umndeni ngapha uyalimala, manje futhi sidinga ukwenza imali eyanele ukunakekela yona imindeni yethu.