Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Abazali abankamunkamu nomakoti nondodana
Ukugcina ubudlelwano nezingane zakho esezikhulile, kunye neziganene nabo kuhlale kungelula. Namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngabazali osekunoqhekeko kundodana nomalokazana wabo futhi abangazi ukuthi lolufa bazolulungisa kanjani.
Abazali baphikisana ukuletha usizo enganeni esikhulile
Kuhlale kunzima kumama ukuvalelisa enganeni yakhe esikhulile uma seyinquma ukuzimela, qede ibhekane nempilo injalo. Kodwa uma lengane esikhulile yehluleka ukuzimela, omama basikwa yizinseko qede bafune ukuyitakula.
Izingane nobungani obuphilile
Uma ungumzali kuba nzima ukuba yisibukeli ngesikhathi ingane yakho ihlulwa ukukhetha kahle abangane.Impilo yokuphilisana nabantu enganeni yakho isemqoka ngoba umuntu ubunjwa wuhlobo lwabantu abamzungezile.
Umehluko ongukhiye phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane
Umphakathi usuba nokungawuqondi kanye nokungawunaki umehluko ocacile phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane.
Ukuhlelela ukulala kosana kunye no-mbhede womndeni
Uthini umbono wenu wokuba izingane zilale nabazali bazo? Umngani wami ukholwa ngukuthi ‘umbhede womndeni’ ulusizo kulo lonke ilunga lomndeni.Uze ame ekutheni lenqubo ingavikela ukushona kwengane ngenxa yokucinana ancome nokunye okuhle kwezempilo.
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Ingxenye yesibili kwezimbili)
Phambilini ohlelweni ezomndeni sasiphendula ukububula komlaleli wethu owayefuna usizo owayezizwa njengesehluleki nawaselahlekelwe yithemba empilweni yakhe. Ukukhala okunjalo kuyithinta ngokujulile inhliziyo yethu futhi siye sifune ukungenelela sisize ngokushesha.
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Ingxenye yokuqala kwezimbili)
Sewake waba sesimweni la kusengathi impilo iyama futhi ithemba liyaphela?Leyomizwa akumele neze ithathwe kalula, kumele futhi ihlaziywe ngoseceleni ongakwazi ukuletha ukubona okwehlukile esimweni. Abantu abazizwa belahlekelwe yithemba, bayinhliziyo yethu la kwa Focus on the Family
Ubaba okhathazeke ngentombazana engena ebutshtshini esikluluza abafana
Ngakube intombazane eneminyaka engu-12 isencane kakhulu ukuqala ukukhombisa umcabango ngomuntu wesilisa?Mina nomnyeni wami sinombono ohlukene ngaloludaba.Indodakazi yami ivamisa ukuthi uma inomngani wayo sibabhadame bencoma abafana abahle. Ngokwami lokhu ngikubuka kuyinto ejwayelekile ekungeneni ekuthombeni. Umkhwenyana wami yena ukholelwa ngukuthi isencane kabi ukuqala ibe naleyomcabango futhi uma ikhula izokhalakatheka kweqe.Ngiyamhlonipha kakhulu umkhwenyana…
Ingane enezinkinga ezingokuziphatha e-pre-scool
Okunye ukubhekana nokuziphatha kwengane yakho ekhaya, kwehluke kakhulu-ke uma sekunguthisha wase pre-school esekuthinta ekhalaza ngokuziphatha kwayo. Asinamandla ezimweni zesikole, nokho uhlobo lobuzali esibenza ekhaya nalo lungaba yimbangela yendlela yokuziphatha kwengane esikoleni nakwezinye izingxenye.
Imithetho yokuziphatha ngendlela komndeni oxubile
Kuhlala njalo kungelula ukuhlanganisa imindeni emibili uyenze umndeni omusha.Ziningi izinselelo ezihambisana nomndeni oxubile,kuze kufike nasemagamani anikwa umama nobaba omusha.
Osangena ebudaleni uzizwa engenathemba ngomshado
Ngakube ugcina unomuzwa wokuthi umshado yinto eseyadlulelwa yisikhathi, ngenxa yokuthi imishado eminingi iphetha ngezahlukaniso? Izinkomba zikhomba ukuthi ezweni lakithi kulabo asebesebudaleni bokushada, bangu 33% kuphela abashadile, okuyisibalo esiphansi kakhulu emhlabeni wonke.
Ukulingwa umthandazo nokuqapha kwamoya
Uma ngithandaza uNkulunkulu ngeke yini angivikele ekulingweni? Nasi isizathu sokubuza kwami. Nakuba ngingazi ubungozi obungaseduze nomshado wami ngokwempilo yawo, nokho ngisenovalo, ukuthi ndlelana thizeni, ngisengashelelela ngiwele ekuphingeni. Ngisanda kuzwa indoda ivuma ukuthi iwele kulesilingo nanxa ibithembekile emshadweni wayo ,nakuba ibizame kaningi ithandazela ukungaweli esonweni socansi. Lokho kungesabisile.Kungani uNkulunkulu enqabe ukuphendula…
Ukukhetha ozoshada naye
Ngokuzika kwemishado ezweni, kwenza abasha bazibuze kusemqoka yini ukushada.
Isithembu nokuthandwa ngabaningi - indlela yokubuka yezwi
Kungani ngingamukeleki ukuba nomndeni ozisekelo zayo yizwi uma kuwukuthi ngithandana nabaniningi besifazane ? Amadoda anqala ezwini –oAbraham Jakobe,Davide noSolomon –babenamakhosikazi amaningi .Ngokubuka iministry yenu egxilile ezwini ,angiboni lutho olwenza nimelane nezinto ezinjengesithembu nezingodosi .Ngizibona nginguMkhrestu othanda ukuba nezingodosi .Ngithanda abesifazane abathe xaxa ngesibalo impela ,akukho sizathu esingenza singakwazi ukwakha isisekelo…
Ukholo ukungabaza kuqhathaniswa nokungakholwa
Ukuphi umehluko phakathi ‘kongakholwa ‘ kunye nomuntu onombuzo othembekile ngoNkulunkulu ? Ngiyakholelwa eBhayibhelini ,futhi ngiye ngitshele nabahlobo nomndeni ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyazenza izimangaliso ngisho ukuvusa abafileyo. Nokho,uma sezishuba izinto ,ngikuthola kunzima ukuthemba iNkosi.nakuba ngibatshela abanye ukuthi bangethembela emseni waKhe, nokho ngibhekana novalo nokwesaba uma kufika izimo ezingihaqayo ezinzima. Ngakube lokho kuchaza…
Amantombazane nabasefazane ekugqokweni kwamabhulukwe
Ngokomlandu amasiko abe nomthelela omkhulu kwindlela yokuphila nokukhetha emndenini, nokho kunemehluko phakathi kwesiko neqiniso lebhayibheli. Uma simisa izinkolelo zethu ngezibhalo, kusemqoka ukubukisisa okwakuqondwe ngqo yilawo mavesi.
Umshado nesenzo socansi emshadweni njengophawu lwakwamoya
Umshado nenkonzo ngakube yimifanekiso efanele ukuchaza ngobudlelwano bethu noNKULUNKULU ? Ngesikhathi ngifunda umbhalo obungomshado wobuKhrestu ngizithela enkulumweni ehlasimulayo .Umbhali uqale ngokuqhathanisa ubudlellwano boluntu nobeNKOSI kubantu .Bese aqhubeke athi kumele ‘sishade noNkulunkulu’ ,bese aze aphakamise ukuthi kulobubunye ,UKhrestu utshala ‘izimbewu zokomoya’ kithi ukuze ‘sizale okusha empilweni entsha’. Ngikuthole lokhu kuwulimi lwezocansi…
Ukuxoxa nomuntu omusha ngokuzibulala komngani wakhe kumbe amjwayele
Ngixoxe kanjani nomfana wami osemusha, mayelana nomngani wakhe osanda kuzibulala? Lowomfana bebengaphezu kokujwayelwana naye ,manje ngiyazi lesisenzo siwuphulile umoya womfana wami ngokujulile. Ningangisiza ukungicija ukubeka kahle lesihloko kuye?’
Ukuqonda Ukuzisika Kwalaba Asebancane
Ukuzilimaza kwentsha kuyinkinga enkulu futhi kudinga ukubukwa serious kakhulu. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi uzisike kangakanani, kumele kube noxwayiso olunqala ngesizathu eziyimbangela.
Intombazanyana Efuna Usizo Emva kokuhlukunyezwa Ngokocansi
Ngisanda nje kuba yisisulu sokudlwengulwa. Ngiludinga kakhulu usizo kodwa angazi ngizoluthola kuphi–yikuphi okumele ngikwenze? Angikaze ngixoxele abazali bami futhi akekho owaziyo. Nginamahloni ukuvuleka ngalokhu emndenini nakubangani, futhi ngesaba ukuthi sizobe ngesedlulele isimo uma ngiyobika emaphoyiseni.Khona manjalo, ngizizwa ngingcolile, nginecala, ngingelutho, ngixakekile ngesaba kakhulu kwakuba kukhona na umnyakazo engingawenza.