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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Obaba namadodakazi anama-mood
Njengobaba ngingabugcina kanjani ubudlelwano nentombazane evese inyukelwe yinhliziyo esikhaleni ngenxa yobutshitshi? Lonyaka odlule ube ngonzima kimi. Ngiyiqaphelile indodakazi isuka esigabeni sokuba yintombazanyana ehlale imamatheka ithokozile manje esisesigabeni sokuhlala ixhukile iletha izimpikiswano.Ubudlelwano bethu babuyintokozo kimi. Manje sekunzima. Ngingasiguqula kanjani lesisimo?
Ingane ebuka ama-movie anocansi anodlame kubo kamngani
Ngakube ukubona kanye i-movie noma isithombe esinodlame kwi –TV sithikameza impilo yengane eside isikhathi? Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi ingane yami esese-primary ibuke isithombe esingesihle ngenkathi ikwamngani wayo. Yikuphi okumele ngikwenze nokuthi ngingavikela kanjani ukuthi lokhu kungenzeki kokuzayo?
Umthetho wokusebenzisa kahle icellphone ezinganeni
Ngingawasiza kanjani ama -teen ami ukuhlanganisa ukusebenza okufanele kwe-cell phone kunye nokuhlonipha abanye ? ekuqaleni ngangithakasile ukunika undodana nondodakazi wami ama phone ngoba ngangifuna sihlale sixhumana.Kodwa nje nje sengiqala ukuphatheka kabi ngendlela ama phone abo asebaphethe ngayo .Singaba endlini eyodwa nabo –kodwa uma nje begqolozele ama phone abo –okubukeka kuyinto…
Izimo zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kubantwana
Ikuphi engingakulindela enganeni ephazamiseke ngengqondo? Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha angakuguqula nokumele ngikwamukele okungenakuguquka? Sibhekene nalenkinga ebhungwini lethu ,futhi asazi sibhekane kanjani nalesisimo .Ningasisiza?
Umsiza kanjani uwakwakho onengcindezi
Ngingamenza kanjani umnyeni wami afune usizo ngengcindezi ebonakala imhlasela ?Nginesizathu sokukholwa ukuthi uthwele kanzima kulengxenye ,Kodwa uyenqaba ukuvuma ukuthi lokhu kungaba liqiniso kumbe ukukuthatha serious lokhu okungikhathazile ngaye.Angazi noma impakamo,ukwesaba ,noma okunye okumi endleleni yakhe,kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi lentaba isiqalile ukugingqikela emshadweni nasemndenini wethu .Ngenzenjani?
Ukwakha ikhaya nokubuka kwebhayibheli ukusebenza
Ukuba sekhaya kungenakanjani ngokwebhayibheli eszihlokweni zokusebenza nokufuzula?Ngihlale ngikuthokozele ukuba sekhaya njengonkosikazi nomama ekhaya .Ngabe sengizwa izinkulumo eziningi ngeqhaza lokusebenza okuwumkhiqhizo ngokwecebo likaNkulunkulu ngoluntu.Kusuka lapho sengibe manqika.Ngisebenzisa isikhathi sami ngilungisa ukudla ,ngisulana namakhala avuzayo odado,ngisulana nekhishi .Ngokwami ukubona akukho nto engiyilethayo ngokomnotho ,ngakho angazi noma lokusebenza kwami kunaqhaza lini ngami emphakathini.Ngingazigqaja…
Izidingo zengane engahluphi ezikhethekile
Ingane ephakathi nje nendawo nelaleyo ihambisane nawe ,ithelelwa kanjani ngeyakwabo engezwa sanhlobo ? Undodakazi wami omdala uyisibonelo sengane-emnandi ,ethokozile nevumelana nawe.Umfowabo yena uhluke ngamalengiso .Kunokwenzeka nginithinte ngaye kwesinye isikhathi ; kholwani yimi kuningi engingakusho ! kodwa okwamanje ,ngehlulwa ukuzibamba ngokomthelela omubi awufaka kudadewabo .Yikuphi engidinga ukukwazi ngengane ezithulelayo engaphikisani nomzali?
Uphindaphindo lohlubuko kumkhrestu uzibuza kaze selweqile yini kwintethelelo kankulunkulu
Kukangaki ukuba uNkulunkulu angithethelele angibuyisele kuye futhi? NginguMkhrestu ,kodwa uhambo lwami neNkosi lungugqamincishi.Kukaningi ngiyidela iNkosi ,okuthi ngingahuhluzeka phansi ngobuso bese ngibona iphutha lesinqumo sami.Kuyinhlalayenza lokhu empilweni yami.Ekuqaleni angicabanganga kabanzi ngakho ,kodwa manje sekuyangikhathaza : ngakube sengiseqile isikali sentethelelo ekalelwe mina ? Ngabe sengimqede ukubekezela uNkulunkulu ? Ngakube yinto le okumele…
Inkonzo yekamero eqophelweni eliphezulu layo
Ngakube ucansi emshadweni luyanelisa ngempela? Ngisemshadweni onzima ,isilonda esikhona phakathi kukankosikazi wami name- wudaba lwenkonzo . Ngizizwa ngincintshiwe. .Kwesinye iskhathi ngize ngibe nezilingo zokufisa izidingo zami zigcwaliseke ngaphandle . Ngifunde umbhalo othi abantu abasemshadweni yibo abaneliseke kakhulu ngenkonzo yekamero emhlabeni –akwenzeki nakoyedwa ukweneliseka kothandana nabantu abaningi.Ngithola kunzima kimi ukukholwa yilokho…
Ukubhekana nobunzima bokuhuhwa ngobulili bunye
Ikhona indlela enginganqoba ngayo umzabalazo wami weminyaka ngokuhuhekela ebulilini bunye nobami? Sengizamile ukulwa,kodwa kubukeka kwehlulekeka ngigcina ngenze ngokuzenzakaleka ngokwalemizwa .Ngenzenjani ?
Umphostoli Phawuli ngomshado nokuba wedwa
Kanti ibhayibheli alibuki yini umshado njengeqophelo eliphezulu lesibili ? Njengosemdala engashadile,angizwa neze kahle uma ngibona amakholwa egcizelela kangaka ubumqoka bomshado.Utadisho lwami lomlando lungiholela ekukholweni ukuthi ukuba wedwa kwakuvelele phambilini kunamanje.Izingcindezelo zokubuka kwesiko lamanje lisivala amehlo ukugqqama kwesitatimende sikaPhawuli : “Ngifisa sengathi bonke abantu benganjengami” [ 1KwabaseKhorinte 7: 7] .Ngikholwa ngumunxa…
Ukwehlisa amava engcindezi emndenini wakho
Ngingavika kanjani ubushudushudu bami nengcindezi ukuba bungabi nemithelela emibi kunkosikazi nasezinganeni zami? Kwanele ngokwakho ukubhekana nalemizwa edluntulanayo ,kodwa okomcabango wokuthi ngenza ibe nzima impilo yomndeni wami yiwo kanye okunzima ukuwuthwala.Ngenzenjani ?
Ukusiza oyisisulu sobhongoza kwezokuxhumana
Ngenze njani ngezingane ezithumela imiyalezo ephazamisanayo kwifoni yami ziphinde zithumele amahebezi angamanga ngami ku facebook? Ekuqaleni ngazama ukubaziba ,kodwa isimo sesidlulele okungangokuthi angisafune kulubhada esikoleni .Labantu bacekela phansi impilo yami!
Inkambiso yokuziphatha kwengane esikhulile egunyeni labazali
Manje njengoba sengedlule ku 18 weminyaka ngiqhubeke ngithobe kumama nobaba? iBhayibheli lithi kumele izingane zilalele abazali bazo [ KwabaseFesu 6:1 ;kwabaseKolose 3 :20 ]manje kukusiphi isigaba lakhona ngizozimela ekulawulweni yibona?
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli-ubumqoka benkonzo yekamero emshadweni
Ngakube inkonzo iseqhulwini kangako emshadweni onempilo ? Nakhu okwenza ngibuze .Siyaphikisana nowakwami .Ungitshela ukuthi inkonzo ingcwele yisacramente futhi luyimfihlakalo engcwele ,nokuthi imelwe ukuba yindikimba yobudlelwano bethu .Uze asebenzise kwabaseFesu 5: 30-32 ukweyamisa lenkulumo yakhe.Angivumi mina,emva kwakho konke ,kuningi okungomshado ngaphezu kwenkonzo .Ngaphandle kwebhayibheli uqobo [1 Khorinte 7 :3-5] kubukeka lencwadi…
Umsiza kanjani uwakwakho onengcindezi
Ngingamenza kanjani umnyeni wami afune usizo ngengcindezi ebonakala imhlasela ?Nginesizathu sokukholwa ukuthi uthwele kanzima kulengxenye ,Kodwa uyenqaba ukuvuma ukuthi lokhu kungaba liqiniso kumbe ukukuthatha serious lokhu okungikhathazile ngaye.Angazi noma impakamo,ukwesaba ,noma okunye okumi endleleni yakhe,kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi lentaba isiqalile ukugingqikela emshadweni nasemndenini wethu .Ngenzenjani?
Ukwakha ikhaya nokubuka kwebhayibheli ukusebenza
Ukuba sekhaya kungenakanjani ngokwebhayibheli eszihlokweni zokusebenza nokufuzula?Ngihlale ngikuthokozele ukuba sekhaya njengonkosikazi nomama ekhaya .Ngabe sengizwa izinkulumo eziningi ngeqhaza lokusebenza okuwumkhiqhizo ngokwecebo likaNkulunkulu ngoluntu.Kusuka lapho sengibe manqika.Ngisebenzisa isikhathi sami ngilungisa ukudla ,ngisulana namakhala avuzayo odado,ngisulana nekhishi .Ngokwami ukubona akukho nto engiyilethayo ngokomnotho ,ngakho angazi noma lokusebenza kwami kunaqhaza lini ngami emphakathini.Ngingazigqaja…
Ungqubuzano nabazali ngamalungiselelo omshado
Singabhekana kanjani nokungaba ngamathuba okungavumelani aqhumayo kubazali bami ngomshado wethu ozayo?Bagcizelele ukumelana kokuba khona kwamawayini nokudansa kwi -reception.Mina nozoba ngumkhwenyana wami sizimele ngokwezimali futhi sikulungele ukuzikhokhela thina izindleko zonke zomshado .Nokho lokho kungelungise lenkinga ,njengoba uMawami esekucacisile ukuthi ngeke beze bona emshadweni wethu uma kuneziphuzo ezihlohlozayo nemidanso.Eqinisweni lezozinto azikho mqoka…
Umkhuba wokuba izingane zihlale zicabanga sakukhathazeka
Ngakube umkhuba oqhubekayo wokuhlala ingane ikhathazekile ngengqondo, ungaba nobungozi ekuhambeni kwesikhathi? Ingane yami inalowomkhuba ,sengenze okuningi ukuqeda lokho kodwa lutho ngehlulekile. Kuyangisanganisa lokhu. Yikuphi okumele ngikwenze?
Umndeni oxubile ogcina ungophumelelayo
Njengoba ngishada isibili ,ngiwumzali wezingane ezizalwa nezingazalwa yimi,yikuphi engingakwenza ukuba isimo sokungena emndenini oxubile sibe ngesenzeka ngesihle,ezinganeni zami,ezomkami,nawo wonke umuntu othintekayo kulendaba?