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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukulungisela ukukhishwa ejele kowakwakho
Ninazo iziluleko zowesifazane omkhwenyana wakhe usezophuma ejele?Umnyeni wami ubetoke iminyaka emithathu,usezobuya ngenyanga ezayo.Ngilangazelele ukubuya kwakhe ,ngibe sebudlwaneni obumnandi isibili naye ,kodwa khona lapho futhi ngizizwa nginovalo.Angikwazi ngqo ngqo engingakulindela.Ningangisiza?
Ubuzali enganeni esikhulile kube kukhona ezisencane
Singaba ngumzali kanjani wengane endala kube kunezinye ezisencane ekhaya ezimbili? Zintathu sezizonke izingane zethu : umfana nentombazana esise- high school ,nendodana esiphakathi ko 20.Lo omdala izinto azimhambelanga kahle ukuyobheka impilo osekumphoqe abuye ekhaya okwesikhashana.Siyabona usemdala futhi kumele simlawule ngokwehlukile ngokwemithetho ,nokho sisabela umthelela engenzeka kulaba abancane .Zikhona iziluleko eningangipha zona…
Ukwehliswa isithunzi uwakwakho
Ngenze njani uma uwakwami ekhuluma okungeyikho kumbe okungiphoxayo emndenini noma kubangani? Angicabangi usuke ekuqondile kodwa mina kugcina kungehlisa isithunzi.Sekuyiminyaka yenzeka lento.Ekuqaleni ngangiye ngimlinde size sibe sobabili bese ngigonyuluke kuye.Manje sekuvese kwadlanga futhi sengibona kungcono ngivese ngingasalindi manje kodwa ngimdumele khona esidlangalaleni ze ngivikele isithunzi sami.Yikuphi eningakusho?
Iminmgcele emshadweni evikela ukusiza owobunye ubulili
Angeke walokotha ukuthathe kancane ukuklama umngcele emshadweni wakho. Ubudlelwano emishadweni eminingi sebube nduvunduvu ngenxa yokungakali imingcele ecacile, yagcina ingena esonweni. Ngakube indoda eshadile ingasiza owesifazane oshadile ngezinkinga zakhe zomshado bebobabili?
Ukubhekana nobungane bokunganaki
‘Ngingamqondisa kanjani umfanawami onkambo ikhombisa ukungakhuli ngengqondo ? Hhayi ngoba engezwa kodwa ubudedengu nje.Isibonelo nje akazibeki izinto zakhe ,uvese ashiye ibhola lakhe la lingantshontshwa kalula khona,ashiye kanjalo izicathulo namathoyizi.Kwenziwanjani ?
Uwakwami uhlukumeza izingane ngokomzimba
Umnyeni wami akakaze abe ngonodlame kimi ,nokho kuluduba oluhlukile ngamalengiso mase kuziwa kubantwana bami .Uvama njalo ukubabhaxa,futhi useke wabalimaza kaninganyana .Ngifuna ukuvikela ,nokho ngiyesaba ukuthi lokho uzokuthatha kanjani uma ngimphonsela inselelo .Yikuphi okumele ngikwenze ?
Ukuphila nowakwakho onengcindezi yehaba-kucabanga
Ninazo iziluleko kophila nowakwakhe ogcine eseqhoqhobelwe imidanti engenasidingo ? Kimi sekuyacaca ungenwe wukucabanga ngobuhaba.Uhlala njalo exwayile ekhathazekile .Akalali engabhekaka isicabha kashumi .Ngihola kahle ,kodwa uhlala ekhala ngokuthi wesaba kungenzeka sihlulwe zindleko suku lumbe Sekuqala ukungisanganisa lokhu ,kukhona enikuphakamisayo ?
Uwushiya kanjani umsebenzi e –office bese ube ngosemndenini
Izimfuno zemsebenzi edla isikhathi kanye nesindayo zinkulu, bese kuphenduka inselelo ukuthola isikhathi sakho nomndeni okuyinto esemqoka Esikhathini sethu esigijimayo, nala khona i-technology isigcina simatasa nangeminwe yethu sihlala sikwezokuxhumana, kubiza ukukuqonda ngqo ukwenza isikhathi nomndeni ikakhulukazi la khona ukudinga.
UMusa ,umthetho ,nokukhuluma iQiniso ngothando
Ngingama kanjani eqinisweni likaNkulunkulu kodwa ngingabi ngowahlulelayo ? Ngingumuntu okhulumayo ngokholo lwakhe ,okugcina kwenza abantu bangiphonsele inselelo .AmaKhrestu amaningi kulezinsuku azi ukuthi ungaba likholwa wenze nantoni oyicabangayo bese uyasindiswa ngomusa nesihawu seNkosi.Banomqondo wokuthi umhlatshelo onguKhrestu unamandla phezu komthetho okuphetha ngokuthi uNkulunkulu angabi nandaba nobuqotho bokuziphatha .Lokhu kuvamisa ukuba yilomqondo ikakhulukazi…
Ukuhlonza izimpawu zokugxila ophuzweni kothandiweyo wakho
Yiziphi izimpawu zokugxila ophuzweni ? Ngikhathazekile ngomkhwenyana wami kodwa angazi noma nginesiqiniseko sokuthi kukhona akwenzayo ngophuzo.Uma ehleli nabangani bakhe bebuka ibhola kwi TV kusuke kuphuzwa utshwala.Nanxa kungenzeki njalo.Kahle hle ngenye yezindlela azivikela ngayo uthi uphuza makungama -weekend noma kune- game .Uthi yisikhathi nje sokuzijabulisa nabangane bakhe ,engekho emsebenzini epholisa ingqondo…
Ucansi kwezokuxhumana ,ukuthandana online,ukuphinga Nesehlukaniso
Ngokwamagama kaJesu awasho ku Mathewu 5:27 -30 ,kwehluka kanjani ukuphinga ngokubuka nokuphinga kwempela ? Uma kungenamehluko ,ngakube ukungena komnyeni wami kwezocansi online kunginika amava okuthi ngingahlukanisa naye? Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi usebudlelwaneni obuqhubekayo nge- internet .Uthi yena akukho kuphinga ngaloluhlobo lwalesisenzo .Ngokwakhe ngenye yezindlela nje yokuzidlalela umdlalo wezocansi emoyeni.Mina angivumi sanhlobo…
Izingungquko ezenzeka ekungeneni ekuthombeni nasebubhungwini
Ningasitshela ukuthi zinguquko zini esingazilindela ngenkathi ingane yethu ingena ebubhungwini –nokuthi sibhekane kanjani nakho ? Siqeda kubona ukuba yiyona nselelelo le kundodana wethu. Futhi ngibona sengathi mina noyise kuzomele sithwale umthwalo othe xaxa ngesikhathi sesibhekisisa loluguquko angena kulo.Kukhona eninakho okuphathekayo kokwehlisa lesivunguvungu ?
Umsebenzi owufundele ubizo nomsebenzi unguMKhrestu
Ngingalwazi kanjani ubizo luka Nkulunkulu empilweni yami ? Kuyiminyaka ngisebenza emsebenzini onzima nongahlabi mxhwele .Akukho ntokozo nakuneliseka ongilethele khona ngaphandle kokuthi usigcina sinesinkwa etafuleni siwumndeni .Ngokwami ukubuka yikho okuseqhulwini elikhulu lokho.Khona manjalo ngiye ngizwe abashumayeli bethi uNkulunkulu unobizo oluqondene nawe nokuthi lolobizo lubandakanya nomsebenzi wami .Ngokwami ukubuka leyonkulumo ayimile ngezwi…
Ozoba ngumkhwenyana useke waba socansini phambi komshado
Njengozoba ngumakoti ngingalinqoba kanjani isemumva lami lokuphoxeka engibhekene nako njengamanje kokuthi lensizwa engizoshada nayo ayiseyona insizwa nsi!?Angimbambele lutho.Kahle hle ngizizwa nginecala ukuba nalemizwa ,ngoba phela ungumzalwane ozinikele eNkosini,omnene nonobubele ,nendoda enkambo eqotho.Khona manjalo ,ngiyehlulwa ukuzibamba ukuthi ukukhathazeka ukuthi lokhu kunganogcobho emshadweni wethu nokuthi sixhumana kanjani njengonkosikazi nendoda.Akulaleki ebusuku ngizibuza ukuthi…
Ake uyozicinga njengendlela yokuqondisa izigwegwe
‘Ukuyozicinga kwengane kunamandla kangakanani? Usana lwethu seluthe klwi manje angazi ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokuqondisa oluhambisana nesigaba sokukhula.Abahlobo bami bona bakhonze kakhulu ukuthi ingane ‘ake iyozicinga ‘.Anginaso isiqiniseko ukuthi iyona ndlela engcono le. Kunini la khona ‘ukuyozicinga’ kuyindlela eshaya khona yokuqondisa izigwegwe ? Kunini la ingesiyo khona? Umehluko ngingawubona kanjani ?…
Ucansi olungaphandle kwendawo yalo njengokuzinelisa ngenkonzo emshadweni
Kuthini ukuphawula kwenu ngenkonzo engokuthintana nje ngaphandle ? Ngakube yinkonzo eyamukelekile yini kunkosikazi nendoda?
Indoda esebenzisa izithombe zobunqunu ngoba unkosikazi engasayinelisi
Kumele yini indoda ifune ukuzinelisa ngokocansi ngokuthi ibuke izithombe zobunqunu uma kuwukuthi unkosikazi wayo akasazithandi akazinaki ,useyahubazela nje ? Ngisemshadweni onzima.Kusuka emva nje sashada ,umkami akasawunaki sanhlobo umzimba wakhe ,futhi yinto anganandaba nayo leyo manje .Angifuni ukumdivoza ,kodwa ngisenayo imizwa yenkonzo yekamero .Umqondo muni ongasiza la?
Ukhuluma kanjani nezingane ngobaba ongekho
Ngiyiphendula kanjani imibuzo enzima enganeni yami mayelana nobaba wayo ongekho ? Ngahlukana noyise ,cishe eminyakeni ewu 8-ngesikhathi esimuncu-futhi akakaze ambone .Kodwa mumva nje usebuza izinto ezinjengokuthi : ‘usamthanda ubaba Mah ?’ futhi : “Kungani engasifoneli –akangithandi yini nami?” nokuthi “ngingazama ukumcinga ngelinye ilanga ?” Nicabanga ngimphendule ngithini ?
Ukusiza izingane zibhekane nobhongoza
Ngingabona kanjani ukuthi ingane yami inenkinga yokubhongozwa ? Zikhona izimpawu zalokho ? Uma kuwukuthi ,ukulenkinga ,pho ngingamsiza kanjani kulesisimo?
Ukunqamuka kokuphinga, ukuzenyeza nokuthethelela
Ngakube umuzwa wokuzenyeza uxhumene nesimo sami sokungathetheleli umnyeni wami ekungathembekini nomngani wami oseduze kimi ? Lokhu kuphinga kwenzeka nyakenye ,sabuyisana ,futhi nomshado wethu uqhakambile kunakuqala .Nanxa kunjalo ngisenomuzwa wokuzenyeza nokungazethembi .Kukhona ukuxhumana kulezizinto ?