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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Amantombazane nabasefazane ekugqokweni kwamabhulukwe
Ngingalivumela itshitshi lami ligqoke ibhulukwe? Ngakhuliswa ekhaya labazalwane abanomthetho lakhona kwakaugcizelelwa ukugqoka ngesizotha kwamantombazane. Ukusho ngqo ,uMawami wangenza ngiqonde ukuthi amantombazane akumele agqoke ibhulukwe ,” owesifazane makangagqoki okwendoda ,nendoda mayingembathi ingubo yowesifazane ,ngokuba yilowo nalowo okwenza lokho uyisinengiso kuJehova uNkulunkulu wakho” [Dut 22:5] .Kulezinsuku abesifazane sebegqoke amabhulukwe –hhayi nje ekhaya…
Ukuxoxa nomuntu omusha ngokuzibulala komngani wakhe kumbe amjwayele
‘Ngixoxe kanjani nomfana wami osemusha ,mayelana nomngani wakhe osanda kuzibulala ? Lowomfana bebengaphezu kokujwayelwana naye ,manje ngiyazi lesisenzo siwuphulile umoya womfana wami ngokujulile.Ningangisiza ukungicija ukubeka kahle lesihloko kuye ?’
Ukululama Enhliziyweni Emva Kwesimo Esibuhlungu
Ngingathola kanjani ukululama ekuhlasimuleni komzimba nosizi ? Inyanga yonke edlule ngakithi sibhekane nezikhukhula ezibuhlungu.Thina nje silahlekelwe yikhaya ,ukuphazamiseka kwesikole nomsebenzi okuchaza ukuma kweholo ,ukusambatheka ngekusasa.Manje njengokuba lokho sekwedlule ,sisagotshiswe amadlangala kwenye indawo ,siyimindeni,sengiqale ukubona ukuthi sisazophila nobuhlungu balesikhukhula eside isikhathi lesi .Ningangisiza ukudondolozela kulomqansa?
Izizathu ukulubekela Imfundo Ephakeme
Kungani kumele ngiye e University ? Indlela mina engibuka ngayo ,amakolishi awabumbi isizukulwane esilandelayo ukuba sibe abadala abanokhiqhizo nobuholi,lokho okungasizi mfundi ukufinyelela ezimpokophelweni zakhe .Kungani uzicwilise ezikweletini ngenxa nje yokuthi kunomuntu olindele ube neziqu ? Kungani uchithe iminyaka yakho emide usebenzela ucwezu lwephepha nje ologcina lukubeka ezingeni lokuhola okufanayo nongenalo?…
Umkhwenyana ozibuza ngakube abambe iqhaza lokuba ngumama
Kukhona oku-wrong ngobaba abahlala ekhaya? Njengamanje angisebenzi kanti nonkosikazi wami uhola kahle ,lokho okwenza ngibone kungcono nginakekele ikhaya nabantwana .Ngisaqala kwakubukeka kungumqondo omuhle kodwa manje senginongabazane.
OGogo noMkhulu abalekelela Omama nobaba abamatasa
Ngakube thina njengoGogo ,simelwe yini ukuthatha isikhala sobuzali kubazukulu ? Undodana wami nomakoti bayasebenza futhi bahlale bematasa ngokwevile.Ngiye ngizithole nekhehla lami sesithatha iqhaza lobuzali esikhundleni sabo ukuze bone babhekane nobutasa bemisebenzi yabo.Siyakujabulela ukuba nabazukulu futhi sibe lusizo ngalendlela .Kodwa kwesinye isikhathi ngiba nomuzwa wongabazane .Nicabanga ukuthi lokhu kuluhlelo oluhle?
Ukuqondisa Izigwegwe Enganeni Engekho kunyathela kunye
Yini engingayenza ukwenza indodana yami ithobele okushiwoyo yenze ngokulalela? Indodana yethu encane inenkani ,ulibeka nayo ilibeke.Ayiwenzi umsebenzi wayo wesikole futhi ayifuni noku cleaner ekamerweni layo.Uma sizama ukuxoxa nayo ngaloludaba ngomoya ophansi siphetha sesiphakamisa amaphimbo .Yini esingayenzi kahle ?
Akathembekanga Umlisa Obukipite Naye
Ngenze njani ngobaba wengane ebengihlala naye ongikhohlisile ? Sesihlale ndawonye iminyaka emininganyana ,manje ngisanda kuthola ukuthi ubexoxa ngemiqhafazo ezothando nomunye umngani wami .Uma ngimqonda ngqo ,uthe kube yimi imbangela .Emva kwalokho wangilaxaza nengane yethu ,wayozihlalela noyise kubo .Lokho sengingathekisa ukuthi kungifaka ekubeni ngumzali oyedwana.Ngizizwa ngishiwe esiqhingini ngilimele.Ngenze njani ?
Ubizo luqhathaniswa nokuzinikela emndenini
Njengomlandeli kaKhrestu kumele ukuthembeka okukhulu kwami kube kuphi? Nebala siyazi ukuthi uKhrestu umelwe ukuba luthando lwethu lokuqala, nokho abazalwane abasemsebenzini weNkosi baye babe nokuqophisana nokudonseka kulezizinto ngokumele kube seqhulwini.Ngakube umndeni noma ibandla kuqala, kumbe ibandla kuqala?
Uyalelo lwebhayibheli olungokunikela kunye nokulindelwe KuMaKhrestu
Umyalelo wokunikela nokulindeleke kuMaKhrestu, kungatolikwa ngendlela engesiyo kwesinye isikhathi kumbe kungagqizwa qakala, lakhona aMaKhrestu esimanje ekholelwa wukuthi imithetho eyabekwa nguMose seyishanelwe nguKhrestu, qede wasishiya nemithetho emibili kuphela ukuphila ngayo. Umqondo wokukhipha okweshumi ubukeka ungasenandayo ,futhi AMaKhrestu amaningi aye aphike ubumqoka bakho kulezinsuku. Ngokuhlaba umxhwele ukuthi iThestamente elisha linokuningi elikusho ngokunikela,…
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Part 2 of 2)
Ningangihola ekutheni ngintweza kanjani emcabangweni wokuqhelelana emshadweni? Umshado wami kade waqala ukuhlaselwa wukuhuzuka .Okugcine ngokuba sifike esiphethweni sokuthi –simelwe ukuqhelelana okwesikhasahana –okuyinto ebuhlungu leyo .Ngeqiniso angazi ngempela noma lomshado wethu uzosinda, kodwa ngenxa yezingane zethu nokuphumula kwengqondo, simelwe ukungena kulesinqumo . Sitshele bani? Sobabili singaxhumana ndlelani ngesikhathi sisahlukene?Ezezimali nokunye sibhekana…
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Part 1 of 2)
Ningangihola ekutheni ngintweza kanjani emcabangweni wokuqhelelana emshadweni? Umshado wami kade waqala ukuhlaselwa wukuhuzuka .Okugcine ngokuba sifike esiphethweni sokuthi –simelwe ukuqhelelana okwesikhasahana –okuyinto ebuhlungu leyo .Ngeqiniso angazi ngempela noma lomshado wethu uzosinda, kodwa ngenxa yezingane zethu nokuphumula kwengqondo, simelwe ukungena kulesinqumo . Sitshele bani? Sobabili singaxhumana ndlelani ngesikhathi sisahlukene?Ezezimali nokunye sibhekana…
Ukuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese (Part 2 of 2)
Ngakube kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni uma ngihuhwa ngubulili bunye ? Sekube nezigaba lakhona nginenjula mizwa ngomuntu wobulili bunye.Kaninganyana ngize ngiluthekele ukuzihuqa kuye.Ngikhungathekile futhi angazi ngiwuthini lomcabango .Ningangisiza?
Ukuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese (Part 1 of 2)
Ngakube kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni uma ngihuhwa ngubulili bunye ? Sekube nezigaba lakhona nginenjula -mizwa ngomuntu wobulili bunye.Kaninganyana ngize ngiluthekele ukuzihuqa kuye.Ngikhungathekile futhi angazi ngiwuthini lomcabango .Ningangisiza?
Ukuhlola Izifo Zocansi Kongathembekile Emshadweni
Ngakube uwakwakho oseke waphinga ahlolelwe izifo ezithathelana ngocansi ? Umkhwenyana wami phambilini ,ukunqamulile ukuphinga kwakhe ,kumanje sisemsebenzini wokubuyisana .Sisagxoba amalahle njengamanje ,futhi kangifuni ukwenza sengathi ngide ngimhilela ngezinto okungathi angimthethelele.Khona manjalo futhi angikholwa ukuthi okungikhathazayo kuyinto yokuzitshwa .Ngenzenjani?
Ukuzilungiselela Ikhaya Eligengqezayo
Yikuphi esidinga ukukwenza ukulungiselela ukuhamba kwengane yethu engumagcina? Ekupheleni kwalonyaka uyasishiya useyoqala izifundo eziphakeme zakhe ,bese thina sisale sodwa layikhaya .Sengike ngezwa ukuthi abashadikazi abasezingeni lethu babhekana nengcindezi futhi bagcine abanye sebehlukanisa.Singazilungisela kanjani loluguquko futhi sigweme nezikhisi esingaphonseka kuzo?
Abazali abakhathazekile ngentombazane ekhonze imidlalo yabafana
Ngakube kumele ngikhathazeke ukuthi indodakazi hleze ayizazi ubulili bayo ngoba ithanda ukugqoka njengomfana ,ikhonze nokudlala ibhola noyise ? Emva kokubuka uhlelo lukamabonakude ngalesihloko ,kungenze ngazibuza kunokwenzeka yini kukhona okunye okungale kulokhuthanda izinto zabafana kwayo .Nicabanga idinga ululeko?
Umkhwenyana olulama okikanetelweni lwe-Porn ,akasemashushu ngenkonzo
Kuyinjwayelo yini ukuba umkhwenyana okade ezicwilise ezithombeni zobunqunu ,qede angabe esaba nolangazelelo oluseduze emshadweni? Mina nomnyeni wami sekuphele izinyanga eziwu 8 singayi enkonzweni yekamero.Uyazi ngiyalangazelela ukuba kuyona ,kodwa yena useyisibhocobhoco kuyona.Ngisola kuthinta udaba lobudlelwano abe nabo online ,kanjalo nange porn nokho usesohambweni lokulapheka kuyona.Ngizizwa ngingolahliwe .Ngingasiguqula kanjani lesisimo?
Ukugudluza Ingcindezi Yokuqeqesha ingane isigcozi
Ngakube ukufundisa ingane isigcozi kuyinto ehlale inzima neyinselelo? Sinesikhathi sizama ukuqeqesha undodana wethu kusukela aba neminyaka ewu 2.Kuze kube manje sisahluleka ukuwina lokho okwenyuse ingcindezi ekhaya ngamalengiso.Emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa sisahluleka namanje .Ngakube lokhu kujwayelekile?
Imicabango Ngomama Abasebenzayo
Ninalo ukhuthazo ngomama abaqashwe ngaphandle kwekhaya ? Ngiyazi ukuthi iFocus On The Family izipha isikhathi ukugqugquzela omama abahlala ekhaya eqhazeni labo ,kodwa ngiyazibuza kazi ninalo na usizo kulabo bethu okubiza betshathe izikhwama njalo ekuseni beya emsebenzini ukuze izindleko zekhaya zifezeke.