Boys Get Abused Too: Busting Stereotypes with Martin Pelders

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Sexual abuse of boys happens more often than we think, but it's rarely talked about. Why? Because shame, fear of looking weak, and pressure to appear "tough" keep many boys silent. In this episode, Craig sits down with Martin Pelders, a survivor and activist, to dive deeply into the untold truth of male sexual abuse. They’ll shatter the myths, challenge the misconceptions, and offer hope to those who’ve experienced abuse or know someone who has. If you've ever doubted that men and boys can be victims, this episode will open your eyes.

9 Oct 2024 English South Africa Society & Culture · Self-Improvement

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